Taste & See: Church of Good Intentions 5-Day Devotional
February 22, 2026
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Day 1: Taste and See
Reading: Psalm 34:8-10
Devotional: God's invitation to us is simple: "Taste and see that the Lord is good." Like a child trying fruit for the first time, we're invited to experience God's goodness firsthand—not to earn it, but simply to receive it. The Lord doesn't ask us to prove ourselves before we approach Him. He invites us to come as we are, to find refuge in Him. Today, reflect on moments when you've experienced God's goodness. Are you approaching God with the burden of performance, or are you accepting His invitation to simply taste His grace? Remember, blessed are those who take refuge in Him—not those who work hardest to impress Him.

Day 2: The Yeast of Performance
Reading: Matthew 16:1-12
Devotional: Jesus warned His disciples about the "yeast of the Pharisees"—teachings that emphasize proving ourselves worthy through perfect behavior. Just as a little yeast affects the whole loaf, a small amount of performance-based religion can permeate our entire relationship with God. The Pharisees demanded signs; Jesus called for faith. Are you exhausted from trying to prove yourself to God and others? Jesus isn't asking you to perform—He's asking you to trust. Today, identify one area where you're striving to prove your worthiness. Surrender that burden and choose to trust that God's love isn't based on your performance but on His unchanging character.

Day 3: Values Over Rules
Reading: Matthew 5:21-30
Devotional: Jesus didn't come to give us more rules to follow; He came to transform our hearts. When He taught about anger and lust, He wasn't adding to a checklist—He was revealing that God cares about the condition of our hearts, not just our outward behavior. External compliance without internal transformation leaves us empty and exhausted. The difference between behaving and becoming is profound: one focuses on managing sin, the other on heart transformation. Ask yourself today: Am I focused on following rules, or am I allowing God to transform my heart? True change happens from the inside out, as we trust God to shape our values and desires.

Day 4: The Journey of Becoming
Reading: John 1:11-13; 2 Corinthians 3:18
Devotional: You are not called to instant perfection—you're called to a journey of becoming. The disciples stumbled, doubted, and failed repeatedly, yet Jesus continued to walk with them. Peter was called "the rock" and "Satan" in the same conversation, yet he became a pillar of the early church. Your identity isn't found in your performance but in whose you are. When you belong to Christ and believe in Him, you begin the beautiful process of becoming more like Him. This sanctification journey requires trust—trust that God is sculpting you, even when you can't see the progress. Where are you being too hard on yourself? Remember, you're learning, practicing, and becoming—one day at a time.

Day 5: Trust That Leads to Pleasing
Reading: Proverbs 3:5-6; John 15:4-5
Devotional: The secret to pleasing God isn't found in striving harder—it's found in trusting deeper. When we trust God with all our hearts and lean not on our own understanding, He directs our paths. Jesus said, "Abide in me, and you will bear much fruit." Abiding means remaining connected, trusting completely, staying close. The fruit comes not from our effort but from our connection to the vine. Today, shift your focus from "How can I please God?" to "How can I trust God more fully?" When you trust Him in each moment, following His directions and resting in His love, you'll discover that pleasing Him becomes the natural overflow of an intimate relationship. Let go of performance and embrace the freedom of trust.

Taste & See: Church of Grace 5-Day Devotional
Sunday February 15, 2026
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Day 1: The Invitation to All
Reading: Psalm 34:1-8
Devotional: God's invitation to "taste and see that the Lord is good" extends to everyone, regardless of where they are in their spiritual journey. This isn't an invitation reserved for those who have it all together—it's for the broken, the searching, and the skeptical. Like the diverse group that followed Jesus, we come with different backgrounds, doubts, and struggles. Yet God stoops down in kindness to meet us where we are. Today, consider: Are you interfering with God's invitation to others by setting conditions He never set? The Lord's goodness isn't contingent on our behavior or appearance. His table has room for all who hunger.

Day 2: Grace Over Comfort
Reading: Acts 2:42-47
Devotional: The early church thrived despite—or perhaps because of—their discomfort. Jews and Gentiles worshiped together, breaking centuries of division. They had no expectation of comfort, yet they experienced powerful transformation. We often seek churches that match our preferences, our worship style, our demographic. But God calls us to something greater: a body united not by similarity but by grace. This requires the hard work of laying down our preferences for His promise. Today, reflect on what comforts you might need to surrender to truly be part of Christ's body. What if your discomfort is actually the growing pain of spiritual maturity?

Day 3: The Heart Over the Exterior
Reading: Matthew 5:21-26
Devotional: Jesus revolutionized righteousness by exposing that sin begins in the heart, not just in actions. We can appear polished on Sunday while harboring thoughts that betray our brokenness. The Pharisee prayed about his accomplishments while the tax collector simply cried for mercy—and Jesus honored the broken heart. We are all sinners and saints simultaneously: sinners by nature, saints by His covering. When we gather, we're not competing to prove who has arrived spiritually; we're acknowledging we're all in process. Today, examine your thoughts. What judgments, comparisons, or pride lurk beneath your exterior? Confession begins with honesty before God.

Day 4: A Body That Moves
Reading: 1 Corinthians 12:12-27
Devotional: A body exists to move, to act, to accomplish purpose. When we dismember the body of Christ—rejecting those whose behavior makes us uncomfortable, whose chains seem too heavy, whose worship seems too loud—we create a sick, immobile body. God is building something greater than our individual comfort: His kingdom on earth as it is in heaven. This requires every part working together, even when it's messy and painful. We will scratch and bruise each other as we learn to move in unity, but the alternative is paralysis. Today, ask: Am I contributing to the body's movement or its sickness? Who have I pushed away that God invited in?

Day 5: Grace That Rises Above
Reading: Ephesians 4:1-6, 11-16
Devotional: Grace is the attribute of God that allows us to rise above the inevitable quarrels and hurts of relationship. It's unearned, undeserved, given freely with no expectation of return. When persecution threatens, the church grows because believers unite around a purpose greater than personal offense. But in comfort, we grow complacent, leaving churches over minor conflicts instead of extending the grace we've received. We are called to forgive seventy times seven—not from our flesh, but through the Spirit. Today, consider: What relationship conflict needs grace rather than your exit? The world will believe when they see us love despite our differences, united by something greater than ourselves.

Taste & See: Church of God
February 8, 2026 Week One 5-Day Devotional
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Day 1: The Invitation to Taste
Reading: Psalm 34:8; Matthew 11:28-30
Devotional: God's first invitation isn't to change, but to taste. Before He asks anything of you, He sets a table and says, "Come, discover for yourself that I am good." Like a child tasting fruit for the first time, God wants you to experience His goodness firsthand. There are no prerequisites, no requirements for entry—just an open invitation to encounter His kindness. Today, reflect on how you've tasted God's goodness in your life. Where have you experienced His faithfulness? His invitation to rest isn't about striving harder; it's about learning the rhythms of grace. He offers refuge not as a reward for performance, but as a gift of His love. Come to Him weary, and find the rest your soul desperately needs.
Reflection Question: When have you most tangibly experienced God's goodness in your life?

Day 2: Called Out for a Purpose
Reading: Exodus 9:1; Acts 2:42-47
Devotional: "Let my people go so that they may worship me." God's liberation always has purpose. He doesn't free us from bondage simply to leave us wandering—He calls us out to call us into something greater. The Hebrew word for worship encompasses our entire lifestyle, not just Sunday songs. Worship is how you treat your family at 6 a.m., how you respond when wronged, what you consume on social media, and how you steward your body. The early church understood this, devoting themselves to teaching, fellowship, breaking bread, and prayer while meeting each other's needs. You are called out from your old patterns, old thinking, and old bondage to live a life that glorifies God in everything. Your daily choices become your melody of worship.
Reflection Question: What does your lifestyle of worship look like when no one else is watching?

Day 3: Refuge Fulfilled in Christ
Reading: 2 Corinthians 5:21; John 8:36
Devotional: The exodus story foreshadowed a greater deliverance. Moses led people from physical slavery; Jesus delivers us from eternal bondage. God became our refuge throughout Israel's history, but in Christ, that refuge is fully realized. Jesus didn't just point to freedom—He became our freedom. He who knew no sin became sin so we could become the righteousness of God. This isn't merely theological theory; it's transformational reality. Whom the Son sets free is free indeed—not partially free, not conditionally free, but completely free. Yet here's the challenge: leaving Egypt is an event, but getting Egypt out of you is a journey. Saying the sinner's prayer takes a moment; renewing your mind in Christ is a lifelong process. Liberation isn't instantaneous—it's progressive, requiring patience, community, and the Holy Spirit's continual work.
Reflection Question: What "Egypt mindsets" do you still need God to remove from your thinking?

Day 4: The Body Cannot Be Divided
Reading: 1 Corinthians 12:12-27; Hebrews 10:24-25
Devotional: You cannot separate Jesus from His church—they are inseparable like treasure and field. The church is messy, imperfect, and frustrating because it's filled with people still being transformed. But it's also beautiful, powerful, and essential because Christ dwells within it. God never designed you to follow Him alone. Even God Himself exists in community—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Paul describes us as different body parts collectively forming Christ's body. The toe needs the hand; the eye needs the ear. We have blind spots that require brothers and sisters to lovingly point them out. Iron sharpens iron, and we spur one another toward love and good deeds. Don't forsake gathering together. You need the church to help you get heaven into your heart, and the church needs you to do the same for others.
Reflection Question: How are you actively spurring others toward love and good deeds in your faith community?

Day 5: Oneness, Not Sameness
Reading: John 13:34-35; Acts 2:1-11
Devotional: At Babel, God dispersed people through different languages because unified pride leads to destruction. At Pentecost, God reunited people through the Holy Spirit, allowing them to understand each other despite language barriers. This reveals a profound truth: oneness doesn't mean sameness. The church isn't about everyone looking alike, dressing alike, or preferring the same worship style. It's about being united by the same Spirit while celebrating our differences. Jesus said the world would know we're His disciples by our love for one another—not our uniformity, but our unity in diversity. Loving someone just like you is easy; loving someone different requires the Holy Spirit's power. Don't let your love grow cold. The messy, beautiful, diverse field that is the church belongs to Jesus, and He's inseparable from it.

Reflection Question: Who in your church community is different from you, and how can you intentionally love them this week?

Urge to Hide: A Look at Shame and Self-Forgiveness
February 1, 2026
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5-Day Devotional: Freedom from Shame

Day 1: Created for Vulnerability
Reading: Genesis 2:25; 1 John 4:7-11
Devotional: Before sin entered the world, Adam and Eve were naked and felt no shame. This wasn't about physical nakedness but about complete vulnerability without fear of rejection. God designed you for authentic connection—to be fully known and fully loved. The fall changed everything, creating the urge to hide. But God's love, demonstrated through Jesus, invites you back to that original design. Today, consider where you're hiding behind fig leaves of performance, perfectionism, or pretense. God sees you completely and loves you unconditionally. His perfect love casts out fear. You don't have to perform for His acceptance; you already have it through Christ.
Reflection: What areas of your life are you hiding from God or others? What would it look like to risk being seen today?

Day 2: Healthy Shame vs. Toxic Shame
Reading: Psalm 51:1-12; Romans 8:1
Devotional: There's a crucial difference between healthy and toxic shame. Healthy shame says, "I'm ashamed of what I've done"—it convicts us toward growth and repentance. Toxic shame whispers, "I'm ashamed of who I am"—it condemns our very identity. The enemy uses toxic shame to keep you trapped, but God uses conviction to set you free. When David sinned, he felt godly sorrow that led to repentance, not self-hatred. There is now no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus. Your mistakes don't define you; Christ's finished work does. Today, distinguish between the Holy Spirit's conviction (which leads to life) and shame's condemnation (which leads to death).
Reflection: Are you carrying shame about something God has already forgiven? How can you accept His forgiveness today?

Day 3: The Great Exchange
Reading: Isaiah 61:1-3; 2 Corinthians 5:21
Devotional: At the cross, Jesus made the greatest exchange in history. He took your filthy rags of sin and shame and gave you His robe of righteousness. He wore your condemnation so you could wear His acceptance. He carried your rejection so you could experience His embrace. This wasn't a cheap transaction—it cost Him everything. When God looks at you, He doesn't see your past failures or present struggles; He sees His Son's perfect life covering you. You cannot earn this gift, and you cannot lose it. Your shame was buried with Christ and left in the tomb. Stop trying to pick it back up.
Reflection: What shame are you still carrying that Jesus already took to the cross? Will you release it to Him today?

Day 4: Love as Action
Reading: 1 John 4:16-19; John 3:16
Devotional: God's love isn't just a feeling—it's a commitment to act for your well-being. We know He loves us not because He said it, but because He proved it by sending Jesus. Love moved God to action. This changes everything about self-forgiveness. You can forgive yourself not because you deserve it, but because God has already declared you forgiven through Christ's sacrifice. His perfect love drives out fear, including the fear that you're too broken or too far gone. You are loved right now, in this moment, exactly as you are. God's love isn't waiting for you to get better; it's empowering you to become whole.
Reflection: How does understanding God's love as action change how you receive His forgiveness?

Day 5: Walking in Freedom
Reading: Galatians 5:1; John 8:31-36
Devotional: Christ has set you free—truly free. But many believers stand behind unlocked doors, afraid to walk out. Freedom from shame isn't just positional; it's meant to be experiential. You have permission to be confident, to take up space, to show up fully in your own life. This doesn't mean you'll never struggle, but it means shame no longer has power over you. When it whispers accusations, you can recognize the lie and declare the truth: you are covered by Christ's righteousness. Your freedom becomes contagious, inviting others out of their cages too. Today, choose to walk through that open door into the spacious place God has prepared for you.
Reflection: What would living in complete freedom from shame look like practically in your daily life this week?

Shared Image, Shared Calling, Shared Ministry: 5-day Devotional
Sunday January 18, 2026
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Day 1: From the Beginning - Partnership by Design
Reading: Genesis 1:26-28; 2:18-24
Devotional: In the very beginning, God revealed His heart for humanity. When He said, "Let us make man in our image," He was inviting us into the beautiful mystery of the Trinity—a community of equals working in perfect unity. Woman wasn't created from man's head to rule over him, nor from his feet to be trampled, but from his side to stand alongside him. The word "helper" (ezer) is the same word used to describe God Himself—a protector, deliverer, and salvation. Today, reflect on how you view partnership in your relationships, church, and community. Are you fostering mutuality or hierarchy? God's design has always been shoulder-to-shoulder, not one above the other.

Day 2: The Prophetic Promise - Spirit Poured Out on All
Reading: Joel 2:28-32; Acts 2:1-21
Devotional: Centuries before Pentecost, God declared through Joel that a revolutionary day was coming—a day when His Spirit would fall on all flesh without distinction. Sons and daughters would prophesy. Young and old would receive visions and dreams. Even servants would be empowered. This wasn't poetry; it was prophecy. When the Spirit descended at Pentecost, He fell on everyone in that upper room—120 believers, men and women together. The result? Three thousand souls saved in one day. The Spirit doesn't discriminate based on gender, age, or social status. He empowers whom He calls. Today, ask yourself: Am I limiting what God can do through someone because of my own biases? The same Spirit who empowered the early church is still moving today.

Day 3: Women in Ministry - Biblical Consistency
Reading: Judges 4:4-10; Romans 16:1-7; Luke 8:1-3
Devotional: Throughout Scripture, women weren't exceptions to ministry—they were essential participants. Deborah led an entire nation as judge and prophet. Priscilla taught the eloquent Apollos more accurately about the Way. Junia was commended as outstanding among the apostles. Mary Magdalene became the first evangelist of the resurrection. These weren't anomalies; they were the norm in God's kingdom. When we read the whole story of Scripture from Genesis to Revelation, we see God consistently calling and empowering women alongside men. The question isn't whether women can lead, teach, or prophesy—Scripture clearly shows they did. The question is: Will we honor what God has already established? Today, consider how you can celebrate and support the Spirit-empowered ministry of all believers around you.

Day 4: Understanding Context - Reading Scripture Faithfully
Reading: 1 Timothy 2:8-15; Acts 19:23-41
Devotional: Reading Scripture faithfully means understanding why it was written, to whom, and in what context. When Paul wrote to Timothy in Ephesus, he was addressing specific problems in a specific church. Ephesus was home to the temple of Artemis, where goddess worship taught that women were spiritually superior and the source of all life. New converts were bringing these false teachings into the church. Paul's instruction for women to "learn quietly" wasn't prohibition—it was invitation. In a culture where women were rarely educated, Paul commanded they be taught before they could teach. He wasn't establishing eternal hierarchy; he was correcting temporary chaos. When we read the Bible through its original context, we honor God's Word more faithfully than when we impose our assumptions. Today, commit to studying Scripture more deeply, asking not just "what does it say?" but "what did it mean then, and how does it apply now?"

Day 5: Reflecting the Trinity - Called to Unity
Reading: John 17:20-26; Ephesians 4:1-16
Devotional: Jesus prayed that we would be one, just as He and the Father are one. The Trinity—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit—exists in perfect unity, co-equal, co-eternal, and co-existent. No hierarchy, only holy partnership. When God created humanity in "our image," He stamped this Trinitarian pattern onto us. Male and female, distinct yet equal, called to reflect divine community. The body of Christ functions best when every member—regardless of gender—operates in their gifting. When we silence voices God has anointed, we diminish the fullness of His image in our midst. When we work together in mutuality, honoring each person's calling, we become a living picture of the Trinity's love. Today, examine your heart: Are you celebrating the diversity of gifts in your church? Are you encouraging others to step into their calling? May we be a people who stand side by side, reflecting God's heart for partnership from the beginning to the end.

As you conclude this devotional journey, remember: The gospel frees, it never restricts. It liberates, it never enslaves. It empowers, it never limits. May you walk in the fullness of your calling, celebrating the callings of those around you, for the glory of God and the advancement of His kingdom.

Pray-orities Week 2
Week of January 11, 2026
My House Shall Be Called a House of Prayer
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Day 1: Clearing the Temple
Reading: Matthew 21:12-17
Devotional: When Jesus entered the temple and overturned the tables, He wasn't having an irrational outburst. He was making room for the overlooked—the women, the Gentiles, the broken, and the hurting. The religious leaders had turned a place of prayer into a marketplace, blocking access to those who needed God most. What tables have you allowed to clutter your connection with the Father? What distractions, priorities, or even good things have become obstacles between you and God? Jesus is passionate about removing anything that stands between a willing heart and the Father. Today, invite Him to overturn whatever is blocking your access to His presence. He loves you too much to let anything separate you from Him.

Day 2: The Priority of Prayer
Reading: Luke 5:15-16
Devotional: After ministering to thousands, healing the sick, and pouring out His energy, Jesus didn't rush to refuel with food or rest. His first response was solitude with the Father. If Jesus, the perfect image of God, made prayer His priority, how much more do we need it? Martin Luther said that being a Christian without prayer is like being alive without breathing. Prayer isn't just a religious duty; it's the lifeline of our faith. It's where a willing heart meets the Father. Examine your prayer life today. When do you set aside time to hear from God? What causes you to pray? Are your prayers effective? Make prayer as essential as your next breath. Schedule time today to simply be with God, no agenda required.

Day 3: Nothing Will Separate Us
Reading: Hebrews 4:14-16
Devotional: When Jesus died, the veil in the temple split from top to bottom. This wasn't just dramatic symbolism—it was a declaration that the separation between God and humanity was forever removed. You no longer need a mediator, a priest, or perfect righteousness to approach God. Come boldly to the throne of grace just as you are. There is nothing Jesus will not remove that stands between a willing heart and the Father. That job you didn't get? That relationship that ended? Maybe God was protecting you from something that would have separated you from Him. Trust that He sees what you cannot. His removals are acts of love. Today, approach God with confidence, bringing all your burdens, sins, and questions directly to Him.

Day 4: The Danger of Picking Up Tables Again
Reading: 2 Peter 2:20-22
Devotional: The sobering reality is that Matthew 21 records the second time Jesus cleansed the temple. After He cleared it once, people returned to their old patterns, setting up the tables again. We do the same thing. God delivers us from something, and we pick it back up. He cleanses us, and we return to what made us unclean. But here's the truth: transformation isn't about your willpower; it's about abiding in Him. Your job isn't to change yourself—it's to keep coming to Jesus. Keep praying when it feels ineffective. Keep reading Scripture when it seems confusing. Keep taking steps toward God. One day you'll look back and realize you've walked away from something without even knowing it, because who the Son sets free is free indeed.

Day 5: Making Room for Healing
Reading: Isaiah 56:6-8
Devotional: After Jesus cleared the temple, Matthew 21:14 says, "Now there was room for the blind and the crippled to get to Him." When the clutter was removed, the hurting could access the Healer. God's temple isn't just a building—it's you. Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. What needs to be cleared out to make room for God's healing work in your life? Blessed are the poor in spirit—those who recognize their need—for theirs is the kingdom of God. God welcomes the broken, the lame, the overlooked, and the desperate. He's not looking for perfection; He's looking for willingness. Today, clear space in your life for God. Turn off distractions. Create margin. Make room for the blind and broken parts of yourself to encounter Jesus and receive His healing touch.

Pray-orities
January 4, 2026
Sons and Daughters: Returning to Authentic Prayer
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Day 1: Removing the Mask
Reading: Matthew 6:5-8
Devotional:
Jesus confronts us with a piercing question: Are we praying to be seen, or praying to know God? The hypocrites wore masks—literally acting out prayers for an audience. Today, God invites you to remove every mask you've worn in prayer. He already knows your struggles, your doubts, your fears. The Father isn't impressed by eloquent words or theological vocabulary; He's moved by authenticity. When you close your door and pray in secret, something shifts—the focus moves from you to Him, and you begin to sense His grace. This fast isn't about proving your spirituality to others; it's about meeting your Father face-to-face, as simply and honestly as you can manage. Today, practice praying without pretense. Tell God exactly what's on your heart.
Reflection Questions:

• What "masks" do I wear when I pray?
• How can I be more authentic with God today?

Day 2: Creating Your Prayer Closet
Reading: Luke 18:9-14
Devotional:
The tax collector couldn't even lift his eyes to heaven, yet his prayer reached the throne room of God. The Pharisee's polished prayer bounced off the ceiling. What made the difference? One came with a broken heart; the other came with a performance. Jesus calls you to find your quiet, secluded place—not to impress anyone, but to simply be with Him. Your prayer closet might be a physical room, a morning walk, or a quiet corner before dawn. The location matters less than the intention. Where will you meet God consistently? What distractions must you eliminate? This fast is your opportunity to establish a lifestyle of prayer, not just moments of desperation. Remember: we become what we behold. The more time you spend beholding Him in secret, the more you'll reflect His character in public.
Reflection Questions:

• Where is my prayer closet?
• What must I eliminate to create uninterrupted time with God?

Day 3: Sons and Daughters, Not Servants
Reading: Romans 8:14-17
Devotional:
You don't approach God as a beggar at the palace gates—you come as a beloved child entering your Father's house. Jesus didn't teach us to pray, "Our Master in heaven," but "Our Father." This changes everything. Your Father knows what you need before you ask, yet He invites you to ask anyway. Why? Because prayer isn't primarily about getting things; it's about relationship. A child doesn't speak formally to their father; they speak freely, honestly, sometimes messily. During this fast, let this truth sink deep: you are not earning God's love through your sacrifice. You already have His love. You're fasting to remove the noise of this world so you can hear His voice more clearly. You're wringing out your flesh to remind yourself that your identity isn't found in food, entertainment, or earthly comforts—it's found in being His son or daughter.
Reflection Questions:

• Do I approach God as a servant or as a child?
• What lies about my identity need to be replaced with truth?

Day 4: Keep It Simple, Real, and Up
Reading: 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
Devotional:
Peter Gregg's advice echoes Jesus' teaching: keep prayer simple, keep it real, and keep it up. You don't need formulas, programs, or perfect words. Prayer isn't about impressing God with your spiritual vocabulary—it's about conversation with your Father. David came to God angry, confused, desperate, and always left transformed. Notice he didn't leave the same way he came. That's the power of honest prayer. Today, as hunger pains remind you of your physical needs, let them redirect you to your spiritual dependence on God. Your flesh is not your master; Christ is. Every time you feel weak, turn to the Word instead of entertainment. This is when transformation happens—not in the suddenly moments we celebrate, but in the consistent, faithful, daily surrender to His presence. Pray without ceasing doesn't mean constant words; it means constant awareness of His presence.
Reflection Questions:

• Am I keeping my prayers simple and real?
• How can I turn moments of weakness into moments of prayer?

Day 5: Burning the Fat
Reading: Leviticus 4:35; Romans 12:1-2
Devotional:
In the Old Testament, the fat was always burned as an offering to the Lord—it represented the richest, most valuable part. During this fast, you're burning away the "fat" of your life: the comforts, distractions, and dependencies that have taken God's place. You're presenting your body as a living sacrifice. This isn't punishment; it's worship. When you fast and pray, you're declaring that your flesh will not dictate your life—the Spirit will. You're being transformed by the renewing of your mind. As you close this fast tonight, reflect on what God has revealed. What has He shown you about yourself? About Him? What needs to change moving forward? Prayer isn't meant to be a 5-day event; it's meant to be a lifestyle. Let this fast mark a turning point—a return to the prayer closet, a commitment to authenticity, and a deeper understanding of your identity as God's beloved child.
Reflection Questions:

• What "fat" has God revealed needs to be burned away?
• How will I continue this prayer lifestyle beyond today?

Closing the Fast:
Join us Friday at 6:30 PM for worship and communion as we break the fast together. Come ready to testify of God's faithfulness, to celebrate His presence, and to commit to making prayer a priority in 2026. Remember: you are sons and daughters of the Most High God. He sees what you've done in secret, and He will reward you.

Corporate Prayer and Fasting
A Sacred Invitation to Seek God—Together

As a church, we have chosen to begin each new year with a season of corporate prayer and fasting—an intentional refocusing as the Body of Christ. In a world that pulls our attention in countless directions, we want to start the year by collectively turning our hearts back toward God, asking Him to guide us, shape us, and lead us forward.

Participation is never required. There is no pressure, no expectation, and no comparison. Yet our hearts yearn for the day when we are all turning to God in unison—praying fervently, humbly, and expectantly for our church, our city, and the people God has called us to love.

There is something powerful when the people of God seek Him together, believing that He hears us and moves among us.

There are moments in the life of a church or faith community when we sense an invitation to slow down, quiet our hearts, and intentionally seek God together. Corporate prayer and fasting is one of those sacred rhythms…

What Is Corporate Prayer and Fasting?
Corporate prayer and fasting is when a community of believers intentionally prays and fasts together for a shared purpose—seeking God’s direction, interceding for others, repenting, or asking for renewal and breakthrough.

Fasting creates space. By temporarily setting aside something that sustains or distracts us—most often food—we are reminded of our dependence on God. When we do this together, it strengthens unity and aligns our hearts around God’s will rather than our own agendas.

This is not about earning God’s favor. Scripture is clear that God’s love is freely given.
Fasting simply helps us become more aware of His presence and more attentive to His voice.

What Does Scripture Say About Prayer and Fasting?
Throughout the Bible, prayer and fasting often accompany moments of decision, repentance, and spiritual renewal:

• Joel 2:12 – “Return to me with all your heart, with fasting and weeping and mourning.”
• Matthew 6:16–18 – Jesus assumes fasting will be part of the believer’s life and reminds us it is meant to be sincere, not showy.
• Acts 13:2–3 – The early church fasted and prayed together before commissioning leaders.
• Ezra 8:23 – “So we fasted and petitioned our God about this, and he answered our prayer.”

Fasting is consistently connected to humility, clarity, and dependence on God—not manipulation or pressure.

How to Participate If You Are Not Fully Fasting
Not everyone is able—or called—to abstain from food, and that is completely okay. Fasting is about intention, not comparison. Here are meaningful ways to participate without a full fast:

• Partial fast: Skip one meal a day and dedicate that time to prayer or Scripture.
• Daniel-style fast: Eat simple foods (such as fruits, vegetables, and whole foods) while avoiding sweets, meats, or processed items.
• Non-food fast: Fast from social media, streaming services, caffeine, or another daily habit that occupies mental space.
• Time fast: Intentionally set aside extra time each day for prayer, journaling, or silence with God.

The goal is not deprivation—it is devotion. Ask God what sacrifice would help you become more attentive to Him during these five days.

How to Fast Safely During a 5-Day Fast
If you choose to participate in a full fast (water-only or liquids), wisdom and preparation are essential. Scripture calls us to honor our bodies, which are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19–20).

General safety guidelines include:

• Pray before you begin and ask God for clarity and peace about your decision.
• Stay hydrated—drink plenty of water.
• Rest when possible and reduce strenuous activity.
• Break the fast gently with light, nourishing foods.
• Pay attention to warning signs such as dizziness, weakness, confusion, or nausea, and stop the fast if needed.

Fasting should never be harmful or done out of pressure. If at any point you feel unwell, it is wise—and faithful—to stop.

Important Disclaimer:
We are not medical professionals. If you have any medical conditions, a history of disordered eating, are pregnant or nursing, take medications, or have concerns about fasting, please consult your doctor or healthcare provider before participating in a full fast.

Trusted Resources on Fasting
If you would like to learn more about biblical fasting and healthy practices, these resources may be helpful:

• “The Complete Guide to Fasting” by Dr Jason Fung - Practical Tips
• “Celebration of Discipline” by Richard Foster – A classic resource on spiritual disciplines, including fasting
• Dallas Willard - Fasting PDF
• Desiring God – Fasting Resources for Beginners
• Cru (Campus Crusade) – Fasting Starter Kit

A Final Encouragement
Whether you fast from food, distractions, or simply commit to deeper prayer, your participation matters. God honors hearts that seek Him sincerely. As we enter this time together, may we listen more closely, love more deeply, and trust God more fully—together.
We are expectant for what God will do in and through our community as we pray and fast as one.

Wisdom Part 3
Week of November 9, 2025
See full sermon here.


5-Day Devotional: Walking with Lady Wisdom

## Day 1: The Foundation of Love
**Reading:** 1 John 4:7-19

**Devotional:**
God's love is not a response to ours—it is the foundation. Before we ever confessed His name, before we ever sang a worship song, His love pursued us relentlessly. This is the bedrock of our faith. We don't earn it through perfect attendance or flawless behavior. Even when we stumble, even when we fall short, His love remains constant because God Himself is love. Today, let this truth settle deep into your soul: you are loved not because of what you do, but because of who He is. Let that love move you to worship, compel you to obedience, and inspire you to extend that same unconditional love to others who desperately need to experience it.

## Day 2: Choosing Wise Companions
**Reading:** Proverbs 13:20; 1 Corinthians 15:33

**Devotional:**
The company we keep shapes the people we become. Solomon warns us about dangerous friends—the naive, the arrogant, the sarcastic, the lazy, and the wicked—not to make us judgmental, but to make us discerning. Wisdom calls us to surround ourselves with people who sharpen us, challenge us toward righteousness, and walk humbly with God. Evaluate your closest relationships today. Are they leading you toward Lady Wisdom's palace or toward destruction? This isn't about perfection—none of us are perfect—but about direction. Choose friends who are teachable, who speak with grace, who act justly, and who give generously. Walk with the wise and become wise yourself.

## Day 3: Trust Beyond Understanding
**Reading:** Proverbs 3:5-6

**Devotional:**
Trusting God entirely means releasing our grip on past survival instincts and learned reactions. It means facing each difficulty with courage to wait for God's slower but more rewarding result. We're called to trust Him exclusively—not leaning on our own understanding—and extensively, in all our ways. This isn't passive resignation; it's active faith. When circumstances don't make sense, when the path seems unclear, when your emotions scream one thing but God's Word says another, choose trust. Acknowledge Him in every decision, every conversation, every challenge. He promises to make your paths straight—not necessarily easy, but straight. Today, identify one area where you've been relying on your own understanding and surrender it completely to God.

## Day 4: Speaking Life and Justice
**Reading:** Proverbs 31:8-9; James 3:1-12

**Devotional:**
Our words carry tremendous power—they can pierce like swords or bring healing. The wise and righteous understand this and speak with intentionality. They speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves. They defend the rights of the poor and needy. They turn away wrath with gentle answers. Wisdom isn't just about what we know; it's about how we use our knowledge to bring justice and mercy to others. Today, examine your speech. Are your words building up or tearing down? Are you using your voice to advocate for the vulnerable or remaining silent when justice demands action? Let your tongue be a fountain of life that feeds many, not a weapon that destroys.

## Day 5: Living Righteously in the Margins
**Reading:** Micah 6:8; Matthew 25:31-40

**Devotional:**
Righteousness isn't reserved for those with impressive resumes or global platforms. It's lived out in the everyday moments—in how we treat our neighbors, respond to needs, and show up for the overlooked. Like Bryan Stevenson walking miles to reach one patient, or Paul Farmer giving his life to serve the poorest communities, righteousness means standing beside the broken, not just standing in front leading. God calls you to act justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with Him right where you are. You may not be called to Haiti, but you're called to righteousness in your workplace, your neighborhood, your family. Today, ask God to show you one person in the margins who needs to feel seen, valued, and heard—then take action.


# Small Group Guide: The Legend of Lady Wisdom (Final Session)

## Opening Prayer & Icebreaker (10 minutes)

**Icebreaker Question:** When you think about someone you consider truly wise, who comes to mind? What makes them wise in your eyes?

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## Sermon Review (5 minutes)

This week concluded our series on the Book of Proverbs, introducing us to two final role models in our spiritual journey: **Wise** and **Righteous**. We also heard the complete story of a young man choosing between the party of dangerous friends and the palace of Lady Wisdom.

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## Key Takeaways

1. **Wisdom is about becoming, not just knowing** - The wise are teachable, knowledgeable, correctable, prudent, and appropriately articulate.

2. **Righteousness is lived, not just believed** - The righteous speak with grace, act with justice, and give generously without holding back.

3. **Our choices shape our destiny** - We constantly face the choice between the loud, flashy "party" of the world and the peaceful palace of wisdom.

4. **Stories shape us** - God uses stories, not just commands, to reveal His character and guide our transformation.

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## Discussion Questions

# Section 1: Understanding Wise

1. **Proverbs 1:5** says "Let the wise learn and increase in their understanding." When was the last time you intentionally put yourself in a position to learn something new, especially something that challenged your current thinking?

2. Pastor Jason mentioned that Bryan Stevenson "didn't lead by standing in front. He led by standing beside." How does this challenge our typical understanding of leadership? Where in your life could you lead by "standing beside" rather than in front?

3. The sermon described wisdom as "not just cleverness, character. Not just knowledge, compassion." What's the difference? Can you share an example of when you've seen someone with great knowledge but little wisdom, or vice versa?

4. How do you respond when someone corrects you or offers constructive criticism? What does your response reveal about your pursuit of wisdom?

### Section 2: Understanding Righteous

5. **Proverbs 21:26** says "The righteous gives and does not hold back." What's something you're currently holding back that God might be calling you to give—whether that's time, resources, forgiveness, or compassion?

6. Dr. Paul Farmer spent decades traveling to the poorest communities in the world to provide medical care. While we may not all be called to that specific mission, what does it look like for you to show up for the "one patient" in your life—the neighbor, coworker, or family member who needs your presence?

7. The sermon stated, "When the righteous thrive, the entire city rejoices." How does your personal righteousness impact your community? Can you think of someone whose character blessed an entire community?

8. "Remembered not for our titles, not for our character, remembered for our compassion." How does this statement challenge the way you think about legacy?

### Section 3: The Story Application

9. In the story, the boy stood at a party surrounded by Simple, Fool, Scoffer, Sluggard, and Wicked, but then saw the consequences—broken trust, unplanned parenthood, futures traded for fleeting pleasures. What modern "parties" or temptations promise excitement but deliver destruction?

10. The boy wasn't condemned by Wise and Righteous; instead, they offered their hand to walk beside him. How can we be that kind of friend to others who are struggling with difficult choices?

11. "The path was narrow, and it was steep, and it was difficult, but he wasn't alone." Who in your life helps you walk the narrow path? Who might need you to walk alongside them?

12. Reflecting on the entire series, which of the five dangerous friends (Simple, Fool, Scoffer, Sluggard, Wicked) do you most need to "drive out" of your life or resist their influence?

## Practical Applications

### Individual Reflection
- **Mirror Exercise:** This week, hold up the "mirror" to yourself. Which character from Proverbs do you most resemble right now? Where do you need to grow?
- **Teachability Test:** Identify one area where you've been resistant to correction or learning. Pray for a teachable spirit and seek out wisdom from someone more experienced.
- **Generosity Challenge:** Practice giving "without holding back" in one specific way this week—whether financially, with your time, or through acts of service.

### Group Action
- **Community Service:** Discuss how your group can respond to the food crisis mentioned in the sermon. Consider organizing a canned goods drive or volunteering together.
- **Mentorship Pairs:** Pair up within your group—one person playing the role of "Wise" or "Righteous" to walk alongside someone facing a difficult decision or season.
- **Story Sharing:** Plan a time when group members can share their personal stories of transformation—not their accomplishments, but the moments, failures, and relationships that shaped their character.

## Closing Reflection Questions

1. If someone were to write the "legend" of your life, what character would you be right now? What character do you want to become?

2. What is one specific step you can take this week to move toward the "palace of Lady Wisdom" and away from the "party" of the world?


## Prayer Focus

- Pray for teachable hearts that remain humble and open to correction
- Pray for opportunities to practice righteousness by speaking with grace, acting justly, and giving generously
- Pray for wisdom to discern between the voices calling us toward destruction and those guiding us toward life
- Pray for the strength to walk the narrow path, even when it's difficult
- Pray for the needs in our community, especially those facing food insecurity

## Preparation for Next Week

Next Sunday is **Church at the Table**!
- Bring a dish to share
- Prepare your heart for communion
- Come ready to fellowship and discuss what God has been teaching you through this series

**Also:** Skate afternoon at 2 PM—bring the family and enjoy time together as a church community!

*Remember: Wisdom is not just about what we know—it's about who we're becoming. Let's walk this journey together.*

A Journey with Lady Wisdom
Week of November 2, 2025
See the full sermon here.

Day 1: The Gift of a Trusted Companion
Reading: Proverbs 3:5-6; Proverbs 1:8-9
Devotional: Like loving parents introducing their child to a trusted friend, God offers us the gift of wisdom—not as a rulebook, but as a relationship. Lady Wisdom isn't about memorizing instructions; she's about transformation through companionship. When we trust the Lord with all our heart and lean not on our own understanding, we acknowledge that our instincts—shaped by trauma, fear, and past survival mechanisms—aren't always leading us toward thriving. Today, ask yourself: Am I merely surviving on old instincts, or am I willing to walk with wisdom toward a thriving life? Wisdom always leads us back to trusting God completely—exclusively, entirely, and extensively.
Reflection: What survival instincts am I clinging to that might be preventing me from truly thriving in God's plan?

Day 2: The Simple Heart—Teachable and Transformed
Reading: Proverbs 7:6-23; Proverbs 1:4
Devotional: The "simple" person isn't evil or stupid—they're unanchored and uninformed. They need a coach, a mentor who will show them the way with patience and affirmation. John Newton was once a wretch involved in slave trading, yet through storms and Scripture, he became the author of "Amazing Grace." His transformation reminds us that being simple is not a permanent state. We all need people to come alongside us, and we need to be willing to come alongside others. Perhaps you're the simple one needing guidance, or perhaps God is calling you to mentor someone who lacks direction. Either way, wisdom begins when we're teachable.
Reflection: Who has God placed in your life to mentor you? Who might need your patient guidance today?

Day 3: The Fool's Mirror—Humility Over Arrogance
Reading: Proverbs 12:15-17; Proverbs 14:6
Devotional: The fool's tragedy isn't lack of intelligence—it's lack of humility. Arrogance always rises as a defense against insecurity, blinding us to our own blindness. The wisest leaders accept responsibility without defensiveness because wisdom begins where defensiveness ends. Our biblical heroes—David, Abraham, Solomon—weren't perfect. They were teachable people who lived long enough to let God transform their character flaws. When we refuse correction, we become like the scoffer who wounds others with sarcasm (literally "to tear the flesh"). Today, ask God to reveal where pride has made you unteachable. The mirror wisdom holds isn't for shaming but for healing.
Reflection: Where am I being defensive instead of teachable? What insecurity is my arrogance trying to protect?

Day 4: Beyond the Sluggard—Purpose Over Passivity
Reading: Proverbs 24:30-34; Proverbs 26:13-16
Devotional: The sluggard's problem isn't just laziness—it's letting life happen to them instead of stewarding the gifts God has given. Solomon paints a humorous picture: a person too tired to lift food from plate to mouth, making excuses about lions in the street. But beneath the humor lies tragedy—a field with potential now overgrown with thorns, walls broken down, poverty creeping in like an unnoticed thief. God doesn't call us to "hammock theology" where we passively wait. He calls us to actively participate in His kingdom work. Your life is a field. What are you cultivating? What opportunities are you letting go to waste?
Reflection: What "field" has God given me that needs tending? What excuses am I making to avoid purposeful action?

Day 5: Standing Against Wickedness with Righteous Love
Reading: Proverbs 21:4, 10; Proverbs 17:15; Ecclesiastes 9:11
Devotional: Unlike the simple, fool, or sluggard, the wicked don't just experience evil—they desire it. They lack compassion, pervert justice, and delight in leading others astray. Dr. King reminded us that "he who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it." As the church, we're called to resist injustice with righteousness—not through arrogance or political manipulation, but through Christlike character and service. Our "Love Thy Neighbor" response to community crisis reflects this calling. We may not always see the wicked face consequences now, but we trust God's ultimate justice while actively loving our neighbors in practical ways.
Reflection: Where is God calling me to stand against injustice? How can I reflect Jesus' character in serving my community this week?

Small Group Guide: The Legend of Lady Wisdom

Opening Prayer
Question: Share about a time when someone gave you wise advice that you initially didn't want to hear. What happened?

Sermon Review 
This week, Pastor Jason introduced us to five character types from Proverbs that Lady Wisdom warns us about:

• The Simple - Naive and gullible, but teachable
• The Fool - Arrogant and refuses to listen
• The Scoffer - Always right in their own eyes
• The Sluggard - Lets life happen to them
• The Wicked - Desires evil and leads others astray

The key message: These characters serve as mirrors for self-reflection, not just warnings about others.

Discussion Questions 
Section 1: The Mirror, Not the Magnifying Glass

1. Pastor Jason said, "It's not instructions, folks. It's a mirror." How does this change the way you read Proverbs? Why is it easier to see these character flaws in others rather than ourselves?
2. The "fun house mirror" illustration showed how we can see distorted versions of ourselves until we face the truth. What are some "fun house mirrors" in our culture that keep us from seeing ourselves honestly?

Section 2: The Simple & The Teachable Spirit

3. The Simple are described as "uninformed, not stupid." How does this distinction change how we should approach young people or those who seem to lack wisdom? Can you think of someone who invested in teaching you when you were "simple"?
4. John Newton's story demonstrates radical transformation from slave trader to abolitionist and hymn writer. What does his journey teach us about the power of being teachable? What storms in your life have made you more open to wisdom?

Section 3: Pride & Humility

5. "Wisdom begins where defensiveness ends." Why is it so hard to accept correction without becoming defensive? Share an example of when you've struggled with this.
6. The Scoffer "always believes he's the one who has the answer." Pastor Jason mentioned that sometimes Christians can be scoffers in their own faith. How can religious people fall into this trap? What's the antidote?
7. Sarcasm means "to tear the flesh." How have you seen sarcasm used as a weapon rather than humor? What's the difference between healthy humor and destructive sarcasm?

Section 4: Action & Accountability

8. The Sluggard isn't just lazy—they let life happen to them. In what areas of your life are you tempted to be passive rather than proactive? (Consider spiritual disciplines, relationships, health, finances, etc.)
9. The Wicked actively desires evil and leads others astray. Pastor Jason said, "He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it." What does it look like practically to resist wickedness in our world today?

Section 5: Personal Application

10. Which of these five characters do you most relate to in this season of life? Be honest. Remember, this is about self-reflection, not judgment.
11. What specific step can you take this week to move toward wisdom in that area? (Examples: seeking a mentor, practicing humility, taking action on something you've been avoiding, etc.)

Key Takeaways
✓ Wisdom literature is relational, not just informational - We need trusted companions who walk with us, not just rules to follow
✓ The simple are teachable - We need coaches and mentors who will show us, not just tell us
✓ Defensiveness blocks wisdom - Humility opens the door to growth and transformation
✓ Passivity is dangerous - The sluggard's greatest loss isn't their messy property but their missed opportunity to thrive
✓ We must resist evil, not just avoid it - Righteousness requires action, not just good intentions

Practical Applications
This Week's Challenge:
Choose ONE of the following:

1. Identify your "fun house mirror" - What lie have you believed about yourself that keeps you from seeing the truth? Write it down and share it with a trusted friend or mentor.
2. Practice receiving correction - The next time someone offers you advice or correction, resist the urge to defend yourself. Instead, say "Thank you for caring enough to tell me that. I'll think about it."
3. Be a coach, not just a critic - Identify someone younger or less experienced than you who needs guidance. Invest time this week to show them, not just tell them.
4. Take action on something you've been avoiding - What have you been putting off? Make a concrete plan to address it this week.
5. Stand against injustice - Participate in the church's Love Thy Neighbor campaign or identify one way you can actively resist wickedness in your community.

Prayer Focus

• The Mumford family - For comfort, peace, and God's presence during this difficult season
• Teachable hearts - That we would be humble enough to receive wisdom
• Our community - For the Love Thy Neighbor campaign and those facing food insecurity
• Each other - For the courage to face our own character flaws honestly and grow

Closing Prayer:
"Lord, help us to see ourselves clearly in the mirror of Your Word. Give us the humility to be taught, the courage to change, and the wisdom to walk in Your ways. May we not just avoid certain people, but avoid being certain people in the lives of others. Transform us from the inside out. In Jesus' name, Amen."

Announcements & Next Steps

• Wednesday Bible Study - 6 PM, studying the Armor of God
• 316 Paint Night - Friday (register by tomorrow)
• Women's Breakfast - November 8th
• Skate Party - November 16th, 2 PM ($10 cash at door)
• Love Thy Neighbor Food Drive - November 15th, 8 AM-Noon
  • Donate via GoFundMe (link on church website)
  • Volunteer opportunities available

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For Further Study

• Read Proverbs 1-9 this week, paying attention to Lady Wisdom's invitations
• Journal about which character you most identify with and why
• Memorize Proverbs 3:5-6

Series: A Journey with Lady Wisdom
Week of October 26th
View the full sermon here

Day 1: The Foundation of Reverence
Reading: Proverbs 1:1-7; Psalm 111:10
Devotional: The fear of the Lord is not terror but awe—a profound reverence that positions us rightly before our Creator. This yara, this reverence, acknowledges that God is in charge and we are not. It's the humble recognition that perfect love casts out fear, yet invites us into wonder. Like a child who respects a loving parent, we approach God with confidence and reverence simultaneously. Today, consider: Is your relationship with God rooted in fear of punishment or in awe of His magnificent love? True wisdom begins when we stop trying to control our lives and surrender to the One who designed us. This isn't about religious duty; it's about recognizing who holds you securely in His hands.
Reflection: What triggers cause you to respond from fear rather than trust? How can reverent awe transform those moments?

Day 2: From Head to Heart
Reading: Proverbs 3:1-6; Deuteronomy 6:4-9
Devotional: Wisdom isn't merely information downloaded into our minds—it's transformation written on our hearts. The 18-inch journey from head to heart represents the difference between knowing about God and knowing God intimately. Like the ancient practice of binding phylacteries (small leather boxes) as reminders, we need tangible touchpoints that call us back to our identity in Christ. What symbols or practices remind you of who God has called you to be? Formation happens when obedience flows not from rules but from relationship, not from duty but from identity. When you trust the Lord with all your heart and refuse to lean on trauma-formed responses, you allow God to straighten your paths through relationship rather than reaction.
Reflection: What "phylactery" could you adopt to remind yourself of God's wisdom in your daily life?

Day 3: Building on Solid Pillars
Reading: Proverbs 9:1-6; Matthew 7:24-27
Devotional: Lady Wisdom has built her house on seven pillars: reverence, knowledge, understanding, discipline, integrity, humility, and compassionate justice. Like the Leaning Tower of Pisa, a life built without proper foundation will eventually threaten everything around it. Beauty without stability is dangerous. God invites us to examine our foundation—not to condemn us, but to rebuild where necessary. Are your habits forming Christ-like character or reinforcing old patterns? Spiritual disciplines aren't religious rituals; they're relationship-building practices. When you change your habits, you change your life. The question isn't whether you'll face storms, but whether your foundation can withstand them. Wisdom offers not just survival but a palace of protection, beauty, and strength for generations.
Reflection: Which of the seven pillars needs strengthening in your life right now?

Day 4: The Invitation to the Simple
Reading: Proverbs 9:1-6; Luke 14:15-24
Devotional: Lady Wisdom doesn't invite the already-wise to her feast—they're already living in her palace. She calls to the simple, the immature, those still learning, those who know they need something better. This is the scandal of grace: God's best wine, His choicest feast, is prepared for those who recognize their need. You don't have to arrive perfect; you just have to arrive willing. The table is set with home-raised cattle and fine wine mixed with care—nothing second-rate for those who respond to the invitation. God's compassion meets you wherever you are in your 60-story journey. The crossroads where wisdom calls isn't a place of judgment but of opportunity. Will you turn aside from your path and enter her house today?
Reflection: What keeps you from accepting God's invitation to feast at His table? Pride? Shame? Busyness?

Day 5: Christ, the Embodiment of Wisdom
Reading: Colossians 2:1-3; 1 Corinthians 1:22-25
Devotional: Lady Wisdom was never just a literary device—she pointed forward to Jesus Christ, the Word made flesh, present at creation, fully God and fully human. He didn't judge from Mount Olympus; He walked dusty roads, experienced temptation, wept at gravesides, and celebrated at weddings. In Christ, all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge are hidden. He is the divine wisdom who invites you not just to learn about Him but to live in relationship with Him. To say yes to Jesus is to say yes to transformation, to rest, to a new path. Where two or three gather, He is present—not distant, but near. The question isn't whether the invitation stands, but whether you're ready to be made new, to be shaped into His image, to walk daily in the wisdom that leads to life abundant.
Reflection: How does knowing Jesus experienced your struggles change how you approach Him for wisdom today?

Group Discussion

Begin your time together by inviting God's wisdom into your discussion and asking the Holy Spirit to guide your conversation.

Key Takeaways from the Sermon

1. Proverbs is a Story, Not Just an Instruction Manual
   • The Bible, and particularly Proverbs, tells the story of God's pursuit of relationship with us
   • Lady Wisdom is a personification inviting us into relationship, not just compliance
2. The Fear of the Lord is Reverence, Not Terror
   • Fear means awe and humility—knowing God is in charge and we are not
   • God's love is perfect, and perfect love casts out fear
   • Our relationship with God should be based on love, not terror
3. Transformation Requires Moving from Head to Heart
   • Information alone doesn't change us; formation does
   • The 18-inch journey from brain to heart is where real transformation happens
   • Spiritual disciplines help internalize truth until it shapes our character
4. Trust Involves Entirely, Exclusively, and Extensively
   • Trust God with complete confidence, without backup plans
   • Put God's wisdom before everything else
   • Apply His wisdom to every area of life
5. The Seven Pillars of Wisdom's House
   • Reverence, Knowledge, Understanding, Discipline, Integrity, Humility, and Compassionate Justice
   • A life built on these pillars is unshakable
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Discussion Questions
Understanding the Message 

1. The pastor challenged us to read Proverbs as a story rather than an instruction manual. How does this shift in perspective change the way you approach Scripture?
2. What does "the fear of the Lord" mean to you personally? Have you ever struggled with seeing God as loving versus seeing Him as someone to be afraid of?
3. Lady Wisdom is described as actively calling out in the streets, inviting the simple to her feast. Why do you think she invites those who are still learning rather than those who are already wise?

Personal Reflection 

4. The pastor shared about "phylacteries"—physical reminders of spiritual truths (his necklace and ring). What physical reminders or spiritual disciplines help you remember your identity in Christ?
5. Discuss the concept of "trigger responses" versus "wisdom responses." Can you identify a situation where you defaulted to an old pattern instead of responding with godly wisdom? What would a wisdom response look like?
6. The pastor shared his personal story about quitting his job after seeking wisdom from his wife, pastor, and friend. Who are the trusted voices in your life that speak godly wisdom to you? Are you vulnerable enough with them to receive correction?

Application and Action

7. Of the seven pillars of wisdom (Reverence, Knowledge, Understanding, Discipline, Integrity, Humility, Compassionate Justice), which one do you feel is weakest in your life right now? What's one practical step you could take this week to strengthen that pillar?
8. The sermon emphasized that "if you want to change your life, change your habits." What is one spiritual discipline you could commit to this month as we walk through Proverbs together?
9. Proverbs 3:5-6 says to "trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding." Is there a situation in your life right now where you're being called to trust God entirely, exclusively, and extensively? What's holding you back?

Practical Applications
This Week's Challenge:
Choose ONE of the following to practice this week:
Option 1: Daily Proverbs Reading

• Read one chapter of Proverbs each day (corresponding to the date)
• Journal about one verse that stands out to you
• Ask: "What is Lady Wisdom teaching me today?"

Option 2: Identify Your Triggers

• Pay attention to moments when you react rather than respond
• Pause before reacting and pray: "Lord, what does wisdom say in this moment?"
• Share your progress with an accountability partner

Option 3: Find Your Wisdom Circle

• Identify 2-3 people who speak godly wisdom into your life
• Reach out to one of them this week and ask them to pray for a specific area where you need wisdom
• Practice being vulnerable about where you're struggling

Option 4: Create a Physical Reminder

• Choose a verse from Proverbs 1-9 that speaks to you
• Create a physical reminder (bracelet, note card, phone wallpaper, etc.)
• Each time you see it, pray the verse and ask God to write it on your heart

Close your time by praying for one another in these areas:

• Wisdom for specific decisions group members are facing
• Transformation from head knowledge to heart formation
• Trusted relationships where vulnerability and godly counsel can flourish
• Breaking old patterns and trigger responses that don't honor God
• Humility to receive correction as a gift rather than a threat
• Compassion to see others' stories and meet them where they are

The Awe of God Week 3
Week of October 12, 2025
View the full sermon here.

Daily Devotions

Day 1: Awakening to God's Presence Reading: Psalm 139:1-18
Devotional: In our busy lives, it's easy to lose sight of God's constant presence. Like Moses encountering the burning bush, we need to pause and recognize the holy ground beneath our feet. Today, practice being aware of God's presence in every moment. As you go about your day, periodically stop and whisper, "God, you are here." Let this simple practice awaken your soul to the reality that you are never alone. How might your day change if you lived with a constant awareness of God's presence?

Day 2: Making Room for God Reading: Luke 10:38-42
Devotional: Martha's busyness distracted her from Jesus' presence, while Mary chose the "better part" by sitting at His feet. In our culture of constant activity, we often struggle to make room for God. Today, intentionally create space in your schedule for undistracted time with God. This might mean waking up earlier, turning off notifications, or saying no to an optional commitment. As you create this space, ask God to fill it with His presence. How can you rearrange your life to prioritize time with God?

Day 3: The Pace of Grace Reading: Matthew 11:28-30
Devotional: Jesus invites us into a rhythm of grace, where His yoke is easy and His burden is light. Yet we often live at a frantic pace that leaves us exhausted and spiritually dry. Today, reflect on the pace of your life. Are you running faster than God is asking you to run? Practice slowing down - take a leisurely walk, eat a meal without rushing, or sit in silence for a few minutes. As you slow down, listen for God's gentle voice guiding you into His perfect pace for your life.

Day 4: Holy Interruptions Reading: Acts 16:6-10
Devotional: Paul had his plans, but the Holy Spirit redirected him. God often works through divine interruptions, but we can miss these if we're too rigidly attached to our agendas. Today, be open to holy interruptions. If you feel a nudge to call someone, help a stranger, or change your plans, consider that it might be the Holy Spirit's prompting. At the end of the day, reflect on how God may have been working through the unexpected moments. How can you cultivate a greater openness to God's interruptions in your life?

Day 5: Rediscovering Awe Reading: Isaiah 6:1-8
Devotional: Isaiah's vision of God's holiness left him in awe. In our familiarity with spiritual things, we can lose our sense of wonder at who God is. Today, seek to rediscover awe. Spend time in nature, marveling at God's creation. Read about God's attributes in Scripture, letting His majesty overwhelm you. Listen to worship music that exalts God's greatness. As you cultivate awe, confess the areas where you've treated God casually. Ask Him to restore a childlike wonder in your relationship with Him. How might a renewed sense of awe change your worship and obedience?

Small Group Guide: The Awe of God - Presence and Pace

Key Takeaways:

1. We often normalize and treat the things of God casually, losing our sense of awe.
2. The antidote to casual faith is cultivating awe of God through praise, presence, and pace.
3. God's presence is always with us, but we need to wake up to it and make room for it.
4. Our pace of life often hinders our ability to recognize God's presence and be interrupted by the Holy Spirit.

Discussion Questions:

1. Pastor Cam mentioned that one of his biggest fears is that we've normalized the things of God. Can you think of examples in your own life where you might have treated God's work casually?
2. The sermon highlighted three aspects of cultivating awe: praise, presence, and pace. Which of these do you find most challenging in your spiritual life and why?
3. How does the idea that "God's presence is always with us" challenge or encourage you?
4. Pastor Cam said, "Nothing blurs our vision of God like a crowded heart and a life too busy." How does this statement resonate with your current life situation?
5. The sermon mentioned the story of Mary and Martha. Which character do you relate to more in your approach to spiritual life? How can you find a balance?
6. What are some "disruptors" you could introduce into your life to increase your awareness of God's presence?

Practical Applications:

1. Choose one "disruptor" (e.g., fasting, prayer of silence, Scripture reading) to practice this week to increase your awareness of God's presence.
2. Evaluate your schedule and identify areas where you can create more margin or "breathing room" in your life.
3. Set aside 10 minutes each day this week for silent prayer, focusing on being aware of God's presence around you.
4. Start a gratitude journal, writing down three things each day that awaken you to God's presence in your life.
5. As a group, commit to sending each other daily reminders (e.g., via text) to "wake up" to God's presence throughout the week.
6. Consider ways your small group can serve together, creating opportunities to be interrupted by the Holy Spirit and practice being aware of God's presence in serving others.

Closing Prayer: Lord, help us to cultivate a sense of awe in our relationship with You. Wake us up to Your presence in our daily lives and teach us to create space for You to move. Guide us in adjusting our pace of life so that we can be more attuned to Your Spirit. May we not just be hearers of Your word, but doers as well. In Jesus' name, Amen.

Testing & Weighing the Prophetic
Watch the full sermon here

Daily Devotions
Week of October 5, 2025

Day 1: The Character of Christ Reading: Philippians 2:5-11
Devotional: As we reflect on Jesus riding into Jerusalem on a donkey, we're reminded of His humility and servant leadership. Christ, though divine, chose to empty Himself and take on human form. This radical act of love challenges our worldly notions of power and success. Today, consider how you can embody Christ's humility in your own life. Are there areas where you're seeking worldly power or recognition instead of serving others? Ask God to help you align your heart with Christ's example of selfless love and service.

Day 2: Forgiveness and Reconciliation Reading: Matthew 5:43-48
Devotional: The story of forgiveness shared in the sermon is a powerful reminder of Christ's call to love our enemies. This teaching often feels impossible, yet it's at the core of Christ's message. Reflect on relationships in your life where forgiveness seems difficult. How might God be calling you to take a step towards reconciliation, even if it feels painful? Remember, forgiveness is not about excusing wrongdoing, but about freeing yourself from bitterness and allowing God's love to flow through you. Pray for the strength to forgive as Christ forgives us.

Day 3: Prophetic Discernment Reading: 1 Thessalonians 5:19-22
Devotional: In a world full of voices claiming to speak for God, how do we discern true prophecy? Today's reading reminds us to "test everything" while holding onto what is good. This requires wisdom, humility, and a deep knowledge of Christ's character. As you navigate spiritual messages, whether from others or your own impressions, always measure them against the person of Jesus. Does the message align with His love, grace, and truth? Ask God for discernment and the courage to speak truth in love when necessary.

Day 4: Dying to Self Reading: Luke 9:23-26
Devotional: Jesus' prayer in Gethsemane - "not my will, but yours be done" - exemplifies the heart of true prophecy and discipleship. It's about surrendering our own desires and agendas to God's perfect will. This "dying to self" is a daily choice that often feels uncomfortable. What areas of your life are you struggling to surrender to God? Reflect on how letting go of control might actually lead to greater freedom and alignment with God's purposes. Pray for the strength to pick up your cross daily and follow Christ.

Day 5: God's Power in Weakness Reading: 2 Corinthians 12:9-10
Devotional: The image of the colander filled with rocks reminds us that God uses imperfect vessels to carry His message. Our weaknesses and past hurts don't disqualify us from being used by God - in fact, they often become the very channels through which His grace flows. Today, instead of being ashamed of your imperfections, offer them to God. How might He use your unique experiences, even the painful ones, to minister to others? Thank God that His power is made perfect in our weakness, and ask Him to work through you despite (and because of) your flaws.

Small Group Guide: The Prophetic Gift - Testing and Weighing
 Opening Prayer

Key Takeaways:

1. The prophetic gift is often misunderstood in modern Christianity.
2. Jesus is the ultimate test and measure for any prophetic word.
3. Our personal experiences and biases can filter prophetic messages.
4. True prophecy comes from a surrendered will, not manipulation or personal gain.

Discussion Questions:

1. What was your initial understanding of the prophetic gift before this sermon? How has it changed?
2. The speaker emphasizes Jesus as the ultimate test for prophecy. How can we practically apply this when discerning prophetic messages?
3. Discuss the story of Jesus riding into Jerusalem on a donkey. How does this challenge our understanding of power and God's ways?
4. The speaker shared a personal story about forgiving someone who hurt her. How does this relate to the prophetic gift and hearing from God?
5. How do you think our personal experiences and biases (the "rocks in our soul") affect how we hear from God or deliver messages to others?
6. What's the difference between prophetic gifting and fortune-telling, according to the sermon? Why is this distinction important?
7. How can we cultivate a spirit of humility and surrender when it comes to hearing from God and sharing with others?

Practical Applications:

1. This week, practice pausing before sharing a "word from God" with someone. Take time to examine your motives and ask if it aligns with Jesus' character.
2. Reflect on any "rocks in your soul" that might be filtering how you hear from God. Journal about these and pray for healing and clarity.
3. Choose one area of your life where you need to surrender your will to God, inspired by Jesus' prayer in Gethsemane.
4. Practice "testing and weighing" prophetic messages you hear this week, whether in church, media, or conversation. Use Jesus as your measuring stick.

Closing Prayer: Thank God for the gift of prophecy and ask for wisdom in stewarding it well. Pray for humility, discernment, and a deeper understanding of Jesus' character.

Daily Devotions 
Week of September 29, 2025 based on The Awe of God Part 2

Day 1: The Awe of God Reading: Psalm 145:1-21
Devotional: As we begin this journey, let's focus on cultivating a sense of awe for God. In Psalm 145, David pours out his heart in praise, recognizing God's greatness, goodness, and glory. Take time today to meditate on God's attributes. How does His majesty, power, and love overwhelm you? Consider the ways God has revealed Himself in your life, in nature, and in His Word. Ask the Holy Spirit to renew your sense of wonder and reverence for God. Practice praising God throughout your day, acknowledging His presence in both the extraordinary and the mundane moments of life.

Day 2: Praise in All Circumstances Reading: Acts 16:16-34
Devotional: Paul and Silas's response to imprisonment challenges us to praise God even in difficult circumstances. Despite their chains, they chose to pray and sing hymns at midnight. Their praise not only changed their own perspective but also impacted those around them. Reflect on your current challenges. How might praising God in the midst of your struggles shift your focus and open doors for God to work? Today, make a conscious effort to praise God, especially in situations where you might typically complain or feel discouraged. Remember, praise is not just a feeling, but a choice to honor God regardless of our circumstances.

Day 3: Humility in Praise Reading: Luke 18:9-14
Devotional: Jesus' parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector reminds us of the importance of humility in our approach to God. The tax collector's simple, heartfelt plea, "God, have mercy on me, a sinner," was honored above the Pharisee's self-righteous prayer. As you praise God today, examine your heart. Are there areas of pride that need to be surrendered? How can you cultivate a spirit of humility in your worship and daily life? Ask God to reveal any self-righteousness or comparison with others that may be hindering your relationship with Him. Practice gratitude for God's grace and mercy in your life.

Day 4: God's Presence in Our Praise Reading: Psalm 22:3, Zephaniah 3:17
Devotional: The Scriptures tell us that God inhabits the praises of His people. What a profound thought – that our praise creates a dwelling place for God's presence! As you go through your day, consciously invite God's presence through your praise. Whether in moments of joy or struggle, let your praise be a constant reminder of God's nearness. Reflect on times when you've felt God's presence most strongly. How did praise play a role in those experiences? Today, seek to create an atmosphere of praise in your home, workplace, or wherever you find yourself, knowing that God delights in your worship and rejoices over you with singing.

Day 5: Praise as a Lifestyle Reading: Philippians 4:4-9
Devotional: As we conclude this devotional series, Paul's exhortation to rejoice always serves as a powerful reminder that praise should be our lifestyle, not just an occasional practice. Notice how Paul connects rejoicing with prayer, thanksgiving, and focusing our thoughts on what is true and noble. How can you integrate praise more fully into your daily routines? Consider starting and ending each day with a moment of praise. When faced with anxiety or negative thoughts, practice replacing them with praise and thanksgiving. Remember, a lifestyle of praise doesn't mean ignoring life's challenges, but rather choosing to trust and honor God in all circumstances. As you move forward, let praise be your default response, shaping your perspective and drawing you closer to the heart of God.


Small Group Guide: The Awe of God - Practicing Praise

Opening Prayer: Begin the session with a prayer, asking God to open hearts and minds to the message and guide the discussion.

Key Takeaways:

1. Praise is the path to awe, magnifying God until we see Him clearly.
2. Pride is the biggest roadblock to experiencing the awe of God.
3. God inhabits the praises of His people (Psalm 22:3).
4. Praise can shift atmospheres and attitudes, even when circumstances don't change.

Discussion Questions:

1. What does it mean to you to "treat God casually"? How might we unintentionally do this in our daily lives?
2. The pastor mentioned three aspects of awe: wonder, fear, and reverence. Which of these do you find easiest to experience? Which is most challenging?
3. How does pride interfere with our ability to praise God authentically?
4. Reflect on the story of Leah (Genesis 29:31-35). How did her attitude shift from seeking validation to praising God?
5. The sermon mentioned that "praise is the sound of victory before the battle is won." Can you share an experience where praising God helped you through a difficult situation?
6. How might our praise impact those around us, similar to how Paul and Silas' praises affected the other prisoners?
7. What are some practical ways we can cultivate a lifestyle of praise, even in challenging circumstances?

Practical Application:

1. Praise Challenge: For the next week, commit to praising God daily for at least three specific things. Keep a journal of how this practice affects your perspective and relationship with God.
2. Praise Playlist: Create a group playlist of worship songs that focus on praising God. Encourage members to listen to it throughout the week.
3. Praise Partner: Pair up with another group member to share praises and prayer requests throughout the week, encouraging each other in cultivating an attitude of praise.
4. Praise Walk: Take a short walk in nature, intentionally praising God for His creation and goodness. Share your experiences at the next meeting.
5. Praise Testimony: At your next gathering, have each person share a brief testimony of how practicing praise impacted their week.

Closing Prayer: End the session by having group members offer short praises to God, celebrating His character and deeds.

I’ve noticed how hard it is to initiate any kind of relationship, even when there’s genuine interest. I think we’re largely not great at it. And to be fair, there’s a lot of good reason for that.

Before meeting Cam, I had set myself apart for a period of time, intentionally turning away from those possibilities. I even prayed that God would hide me for a while. It was a sincere prayer. I knew what I needed but didn’t know how to do it by myself. So I was really depending on Him to help me. Meeting Cam a couple years later was jolting and surprising. I liked him a lot. But I had learned a lot as well. Learned a lot about myself.

I learned in my relationship with Jesus, He was the initiator, and I was the responder. So as my conversations with Cam progressed and I was experiencing all the feels, I remember confiding in a friend and we prayed. I asked the Lord to make things clear. I asked the Lord that Cam would lead and I wouldn’t have to guess. I wanted to be the responder, not the initiator, just like I was with Him.

Love is not without risk, but there’s a big difference in responding to someone who made their intentions plain, then ruminating over what everything means. Guarding your heart isn’t about never being vulnerable. It’s about using wisdom, choosing how you will move when you have good information.

I decided right then during that prayer that I would keep my heart diligently. It would remain in Jesus. I wasn’t going to be the pursuer. And that was an incredible blessing as my friendship with Cam progressed. Shortly thereafter, Cam called me one night and Jesus answered my prayer in a profound way. Cam laid heart out clearly. I didn’t have to guess how he felt or what he was thinking. He knew he wanted marriage and he asked if I would allow him to get to know my kids. I remember him saying, “I want them to trust me, and that’s going to take time and consistency.” I was in awe. Grateful is a weak way to describe how I felt in the year that followed.

This is one of the reasons dating is hard. It’s easy to understand why so many are discouraged and weary because it feels like you’re working hard for love without good results. I encounter so many people who’ve completely given up on meeting someone. Some have even given up on church. Feeling burned out by tradition and religion, always feeling like God or goodness is just something that’s not attainable….this is a sign you’ve become the initiator.

That devotion time you obsess over, feeling like you never get right, it may come when you allow Jesus to lead. Those things you’ve longed for, hiding them in your heart, only lifting them in silent cries, they become fulfilled first in Him, then often show up when you least expect them to and in the most unpredictable ways. Become that which you seek. Become whole. You will never regret that. Never. It’s attractive and magnetic and contagious, enabling others to also.

It’s way easier to respond to someone loving you than working tirelessly to convince someone they should.

Author: Stephanie Jackson

Champion your kids.

Seriously. I don’t know who needs to hear this, but don’t spend one second holding onto disappointment. They can feel it even if you’re faking it and it’s a residue that slimes their greatness.  They’re not going to do it your way. And thank God for that.

They’ve come wired with all their own strengths and weaknesses and wild dreams and they deserve the opportunity to make mistakes and figure it out just like we did. They don’t have to look like anyone else or be like anyone else.

It’s not always fun to watch. But being their safe place, the one person they can trust is worth more than anything. And as long as I can be that, I’ll have more opportunities to direct and guide by being the one person they always run to.

Trust them. Even when it’s hard. Small moments of unmerited honor have power to transform and inspire. Trust who they are. Trust what you’ve poured inside. Trust Jesus. Grasping for control will only hurt them and increase your own suffering.

They are who they believe they are. And we hold such an awesome responsibility in that. I want them to hear my voice long after I’m gone, knowing that it’s always full of faith in them, pushing them forward.

I live a life I love and get to do a lot of cool work. But I won’t consider my job well done if I don’t succeed at this.

Author: Stephanie Jackson

Nothing can prepare you for when your child makes the transition into adulthood. It’s hard. You don’t know what’s in or out of bounds anymore. You’re in straight up limbo. But you’re still a parent. It’s in you instinctively to guide and protect. But all of a sudden the absolute necessity to make adjustments is glaring in your face. So we can sulk and cry (actually, make sure you allot yourself some time to do that, it will make this process easier) or we can dig deep and become the support our kids need. And it’s so worth it.

The heart aches in a way you’ve never experienced before in this season. The brutal reality is that you’re staring at a grown person but you don’t see the passage of time. You carry every memory that started with the womb so all you can see is your baby, even if you’re looking up at them. But to be fair, it’s not only hard. It’s quite wonderful as well. Getting to watch your kids come into their own, discover who they are and work hard at things that give them fulfillment is a high they don’t talk about enough. It’s absolutely thrilling. Nothing in this life’s made me beam with the kind of pride I feel watching them accomplish something they’ve set out to do or seeing them overcome. But these are still tough waters to navigate none-the-less. So I wanted to document a few things I’ve learned.

1. Meet them where they are.
2. Wait for the invitation.
3. Be their safest human.
4. Don’t make their body an idol. 
5. Surrender the outcomes.

Meet them where they are –
I can’t remember a single instance where this test did not hold up. The most practical example I have is music. In the most simple terms, I DO NOT LIKE THE MUSIC MY KIDS ENJOY…for the most part. There is almost always a new song or YouTube video they want to show me. And when I say show me, I mean they want me to stop everything I’m doing in a moment’s notice to give my undivided attention to said video and I need to love it the same way they do. I felt my last nerve giving out just writing that. But pay close attention cause I’m giving you free game here. DO IT. When I stop and dive into anything they’re passionate about it is ALWAYS a door into their heart. Simply listening to a song they like has been a segue to deeper conversations, many, many times. And that allows it to happen unforced and organically, just by a willingness to lean into their world.
Meet them where they are.

Wait for the invitation –
The first year of our marriage we lived in Salina. My husband had a mentor named Jim Reynolds. We were at his home one night and I was admiring the display of all his children’s wedding photos. He was a parent to all married children with families. It was beautiful and it got me dreaming into the future. He walked over as I was looking at them and I asked him, “What’s the best advice you have in parenting adult children?” He said, “Don’t offer your opinions, wait for an invitation.” I thought that was GOLD and I’ve shared it many times over the years. Most of the time, my kids know my opinions. They know what I’m thinking quite often or what I would say. As they grow and learn and figure things out for themselves I don’t want to cross over that very thin line into overkill. Once you hit overkill, they don’t hear you anyways. There does come a point where we have to let go and trust God. With force comes resistance. So even if I know a better way to do something or want to interject with all the right words, sometimes it’s better to hold my tongue. One thing about giving them the tools is then letting them find their own way.

Empowerment is championing who they are and how they do it, even if it’s not yours. Wait for the invitation.  

Be their safest human –
With adulthood comes adult issues. They’re not learning how to share anymore. They’re learning how to date, how to choose a partner, how to steward their own hearts, and how to manage their responsibilities. It’s complicated and scary. If they’re processing ANY of these things with you, YOU WON. Seriously. Don’t take that for granted and consider yourself blessed.

Chances are, you’ve done some things right already. But I encourage you, dear friends, tread these waters well. How we respond when they trust us with their soul will determine how many times we get the opportunity to. Don’t let your fears do the talking. Don’t lose control of your facial expressions. And lean against the initial discomfort that would make you want to retreat or react. This is holy ground. And if my child needs a space to process out loud and someone to do that with, I’d rather it be me than their 20 year old friend who doesn’t have any answers either. A little emotional intelligence partnered with a gentle tone will keep them safe and allow you to share your hard earned wisdom for many years to come. If we explode we risk losing this space with them altogether and that’s too high a price. Be their safest human.

Don’t make their body an idol –
Now this is a big one, especially for Christian parents. I totally understand the sensitivity of this topic. I do. I have 2 grown daughters. I’m not out of touch with the vulnerability you feel watching little ladies grow into beautiful women. I’ll never forget being at the mall with them and watching, for the first time, a man do a double-take walking past them. You’re never ready for that or all the fears it brings to the surface. But I think we get a lot wrong here. As parents, we’ve had quite a journey in self-awareness. But I think we remain mostly unaware of how deep our fears go and how much they control us in this area. You may not like this, but their virginity is not my trophy, not my idol, and not my biggest concern. When we focus more on their behavior than we do on their heart, we work against the very thing we desire most. Wholeness.

I want them to be whole. Allowing my fear to control me and displaying unmanaged emotion will project shame and send the wrong message about sexuality altogether. Sex isn’t bad. Sex is beautiful and God’s good gift to married people. Lust is bad. Lust is what hurts us and damages our soul. Money isn’t bad in and of itself. Money accomplishes many beautiful things in the world. It’s the love of money that’s bad and corrupts our soul. I don’t want to teach my children what to think, I want to teach them *how* to think. They need to know “Why” much more than they need to know “What.” I might be able to produce an obedient child while they’re under my roof…maybe. But that won’t necessarily produce a person who knows how to steward their behavior when they go off to college and I’m not around anymore. So I’d much rather pour into their heart, and deliver the wisdom I have skillfully. My job is to prepare them, giving them all the tools they need to make the best possible choices, and pray I’m emotionally healthy enough to support them if they find themselves heartbroken or dealing with the consequences of a bad decision. Amen? Amen. Don’t make their body an idol.

Surrender the outcomes –
One of the most significant things Cam ever helped me with was when our first daughter was leaving for college. I was terrified. She had always been under my wing and knowing she was going to be thrust into college life and making all kinds of independent decisions was so scary for me. That kind of freedom is the ultimate test and my mama heart felt every bit of it’s weight. I was talking to Cam one night and started crying and he told me something that gave me so much resolve. He said, “Selah will make choices. She will make lots of right choices. But even if she doesn’t make a good choice, it’s still important she has the opportunity to make them. Because we’ve put everything inside her we can, and it’s time for her to learn. And the learning will be good. Not trusting her with her own journey is dishonoring, and we’re not going to do that. Instead, we’ll be here whenever she needs us.”

Are you crying? I am. Just typing that made me remember all the feels that came along with it. Long story short, our kids will make mistakes. They will fail. The reality of adulthood is I’m no longer responsible for all the choices my kids make. They are. We so often believe that every bad decision our kids make is a reflection of us. And that’s just about as self-centered as it gets. The truth is we’ll never be able to fully protect them from the bumps and bruises of life. But we can respond well and teach them to believe there is always hope and a future in the way we show up for them. Most of our hardship comes from a place of ownership. So teach them, empower them, then surrender the outcomes to Jesus.

That doesn’t even begin to cover it, but I hope it helps someone. Grace and peace to you as you learn from parenting badly, and loving madly. We’re in this together.

Author: Stephanie Jackson

We’re in the middle of a series at church called, From Church Hurt to Church Home, and man, it’s stirring up so much in my heart right now. My husband and I hold a deep passion to love people into healing and help restore hope in community. We’ve all been hurt, and most of us have been hurt by the church. We believe there’s value in acknowledging our pain and making room to process it, necessary even. But we also don’t want to camp out there or cling to our wounds because that can trick us into believing we have permission to quit church. And we simply can’t. There’s no biblical theology for that idea anywhere in scripture. We do see, emphatically however, that Jesus and the church are One. There is no other truth. He loves his Bride, relentlessly. He’s preparing a place for her now and is coming back to recieve Her, spotless and unblemished. And because of this holy and intimate love, it becomes our greatest desire to honor Him and live out the gospel. But it just plain hurts sometimes, and that’s real. People hurt us and we hurt people. But it’s okay. Because Jesus handles our messes pretty well.

Since this series began, I’ve been reading the letters to the seven churches in Revelation. Chapters one, two and three are so interesting because first, we get the most descriptive unveiling of the resurrected Jesus than anywhere else in the Bible. Then he takes the time in all of his glory to tell John to write specific messages filled with affirmations and rebukes to each church in the seven provinces in Asia.

These passages tell us he’s talking to the “angels” of the churches. Or messengers. So although we’re dealing with some harsh words, he’s not talking to the church members this way, he’s addressing the pastors, specifically. I’m troubled but also intrigued by this, so I can’t help but take a closer look.

Peter Scazzero says in his book, The Emotionally Healthy Leader, “The first and most difficult task we have as leaders is to lead ourselves. Why? Because it requires confronting parts of who we are that we prefer to neglect, forget, or deny.”

We also have a legitimate inner conflict. Because love covers. And we long to do that well. As believers we need grace and need to give grace. We forgive. We deal with each other gently. We turn the other cheek. We’re not to judge. And none of this becomes untrue as we dive into this exploration of healthy community. But we also can’t ignore what we see in Revelations 1-3.
Jesus is correcting his Church. Period. We also get a sobering glimpse into the pressures and persecutions that will come against the Bride in the last days. I don’t think we have any other choice but to pay attention. And as tempting as it is to get preoccupied with the details of how the end will play out, we can’t forget that Revelation is much more about the man behind the details.
There are such beautiful affirmations and prophetic implications throughout these chapters. So much so, we couldn’t get through them in a lifetime. But his strongest rebukes were for three things: passivity, immortality, and idolatry (greed). And he’s correcting us for compromising in these areas.

One thing we must remember when we’re the ones being corrected is, correction is not rejection. He disciplines us because he loves us. When the Lord corrects us it’s because he’s contending for our greatness and for our liberty. That we would walk in all that God has ordained for us. And that we would make choices that God would call great. And that he would agree with our choices.

“We matter. The choices we make matter. Every choice to forgive, to be kind, to be authentic, to open up our world and tell our secrets. These things change the cosmos. And not just inside you, but inside this whole created universe that we dwell within.” – Excerpt from The Heart of Man

What we do matters. But who we are matters much more. He’s coming back for a church worldwide that has kept herself as a prepared Bride. Spotless and full of glory, a church after His own heart. But this doesn’t just magically happen. He calls upon leadership who are intentional about cultivating these values and imparting them to God’s people. And these are things the resurrected Christ took time to highlight and talk about when he appeared to John on the island of Patmos. We simply can’t afford NOT to pay attention to what He had to say. It’s remarkable.

In chapter 2 verse 20, we hear of a woman named Jezebel. She became a leader in the church, she was given authority and taught that immorality was okay and was leading many astray. Jesus actually gave that church a powerful promise and said, “If you overcome that spirit, I’ll give you authority over the nations for a thousand years.” The significance of this is more than what meets the eye. He’s not telling them to overcome their unbelief and be born again, they’re already born again. He’s exhorting them to overcome the spirit of immorality, to be faithful, and not to compromise.

It’s not hard to see the parallels between the 7 churches addressed in Revelation and the church today. Passivity, immorality, and greed are still choking us, especially here in the West. And there’s no doubt about it, the church has real issues, but Jesus calls us His Bride. He assures in chapter one that He’s holding us in His hand. And He’s passionate about the one He loves. Many of us want to see change in the church, but there’s a huge difference between our own selfish motivations based in personal preference and true biblical convictions. And there’s wisdom in knowing the difference.

Job 5:17 says,
 “Behold happy is the man whom God corrects, therefore do not despise the chastening of the Almighty. For He bruises, but He binds up. He wounds, but His hands make whole.”

God calls His leaders to act differently. We’ve been entrusted with His most precious possession, His Bride. We can’t afford to not carry this responsibility with fear and trembling. No title and no position exempt us from the need of true accountability. Are you surrounded by a team who can speak into your life? Do you allow yourself to be truly known? None of us outgrow the need to be poured into. If we have a team around us that won’t call us out, then we have the wrong team. It’s hard work, and painful even, but living with an exposed heart and welcoming the voices of my trusted mentors and co-laborers are vital for keeping me on a safe path.

Francis Chan said in Letters to the Church, “ Joy comes as we stand among those Jesus has redeemed and get lost in a sea of worship, becoming fully a part of something sacred. Gathering with the Church should lead us to holy ground.”

A healthy church is a group of believers committed to doing the arduous work of community and getting along, even when it hurts. And the health of the community begins with the health of the leaders. May we not despise the hard stuff. It’s all part of the process.

Love covers. Love corrects. God is Love.

And Jesus and His Bride are One. Amen.

Author: Stephanie Jackson

Most of you know, my dad is recently recovered from a bad case of Covid, and doing really well. We’re kind of blown away by all the love and prayers given when he needed them most. Thank you seems like too weak of an expression for our gratitude.

I’m going to share a personal story. And I want to give a bit of a disclaimer to begin. You might say I’m more open about my life than others, and I think that’s fair to say. But what you may not know is that I’ve felt a strong nudging from the Spirit to share in a more public way starting about 7 years ago when I was still single. I’ve wrestled with this for a long time and even questioned it. If it seems easy for me, it’s definitely not. The internet is a scary and judgmental place. So saying yes to that call is inviting both love and hate. Yet I do, because I have a deep conviction to. This is something both my husband and mentors know about me, and have blessed. So considering that, I’ll get back to my story.

About a month before my dad was hospitalized, I hadn’t talked to him for several months which hasn’t been uncommon most of my adult life. Living without the presence of one of your parents much of your life can create surprising triggers when you least expect them. I was in my car early one morning on my way to work at the church. I was alone, and it was around 8:30 am. Listening to a song, it made me think of my dad and I got emotional rather quickly. As tears began to fall, I started praying for him. I was kind of shocked at how wrecked I was. I’m a crier anyway, but I just lost all control and couldn’t even understand the depth of pain it brought to the surface that ordinary morning. I went ahead and pulled over because I had to let this wave of grief roll through and gather myself. As I cried and prayed (and by praying, I mean mostly just sobbing) the Lord whispered to me, “Is there anything I haven’t given you?” I was so surprised by this question. But I mustered through my tears, “No, Lord.” I continued crying as I pondered what He asked…then He asked me again, “Is there anything I haven’t given you?” In that moment I truly didn’t understand but I submitted, “No, Lord… there’s nothing you haven’t given me.” And as soon as I answered Him the second time, I felt so intensely the Spirit say, “Then release him.”

Now this ushered in a sense of shock and even more buckets of tears. I was initially confused because I knew in my heart I had forgiven long ago. I thought I had done the soul work and laid down my expectations and desires and truthfully believe I love and accept him as he is. So I wasn’t aware of anything that needed “released.” But in submitting to God’s infinite wisdom, I began to make that my confession and I said over and over, “I release him. I release him, Lord. I release him.”

Jesus is so patient and kind. He sat with me for a while in all my big feelings. When the storm in my heart settled a bit, I heard Him one last time. He gently said, “I want you to tell him he was a good father.” My make-up was already done for the day but now I was starting from ground-zero again and in a weepy mess. My thoughts went wild. WHAT?!!! Why? Why would you tell me to do that? SO. MANY. THOUGHTS. But in the holy sanctuary of my Ford, Escape, the Lord reminded me, as he had before, that my dad gave us the best of himself. He wasn’t an evil father who withheld any love or good from us. He was a man with only a cup to pour out, and I was a daughter with a gallon to fill up.

The Lord, in His goodness, keeps inviting me to a more abundant life, free from the weight of heartache, bitterness and void. And He never fails in setting up opportunities to provide the love and grace He’s always provided me. So I knew in that moment of resounding clarity that my answer was an absolute Yes! So I asked the Lord for an opportunity to see or talk to my dad.

Low and behold, not even a week later, we received something he needed in the mail, and were able to get a hold of him, and just like that, I rode with my mom to drop it off the next day.
I met him in the street that evening right after the sun had set. It was so good to see his face and know he was alive and well. We hugged and said the normal greetings and then, when I had his attention, I looked him in the eyes and said, “I want you to know you were a good dad. You were a lot of things I needed and I appreciate everything you’ve ever done for me.” His eyes were wider than I ever remember them. There were some solemn moments of silence and space. Then he said, “I never knew what I had until it was gone.” It took a lot for us both to keep it together, or so it seemed, but we did somehow. Even though a little awkward, he continued on to more comfortable ground and told me about his health and what he’d been up to. He quickly wrapped it up and back into the house he went.

About 3-4 weeks later I got a call from a nurse at St Francis letting me know my dad had been admitted the night before and wasn’t in good condition. The next 3 days that followed were a blur and I was told to prepare for the worst case scenario. The last conversation I had with him before his stability plummeted, he asked me to tell everyone I could and for prayer. I sensed in my spirit his request was a deep soul cry for someone to care. I did so immediately, yet his condition took even another plunge. But only 24 hours after that, we dared to hope in what was nothing short of a miraculous turn around. Dad was at the highest level of oxygen they can give before intubation when his body stabilized and even began to etch closer every few hours to normal levels.

This terrible case of Covid-19 is only one of a few brushes with death my dad has lived through. And I shared all of this to ask that you would pray for him again, but from my heart this time. You see, the Lord’s given me dreams about His plans for my dad. Good, good plans. And with every snare of the enemy I watch him overcome, I can feel some kind of fierce war cry from within start leaning in harder and praying more boldly for the soul of the man who brought me into this world. So I invite you to pray with me tonight, as I pray for not only mine, but for all the ones we carry promises for. It’s good and healthy to remind Jesus (but mostly ourselves) of the ones He’s named and called His own. It’s a powerful practice to remember who God sent His very own Son for. We are here for much more! And in this unique moment in time, I can see the world as a stage being set for possibly the greatest move of God’s Spirit the world has ever seen.

Father God promised Jesus everything. Jesus asked for us…and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it! Amen.

Author: Stephanie Jackson

I was standing in line at the post office about a year ago and I could feel the presence of the woman behind me. We had locked eyes a couple times and swapped smiles. I didn’t know what the attraction was but I could feel it. She soon tapped me on the shoulder and said, “Would you pray for me?” I was delighted by her request and I said, “We’re sisters, aren’t we?” With kind eyes, she simply said, “Yes we are.”

Her name was Sara. She had a beautiful accent and told me she was from Kenya, she had been here in the US for 4 years. When I asked her what we could pray about, she said she didn’t want to project the bitterness she felt from being a single mother onto her son. Wow. What a sincere cry from the heart and one God knew I could deeply relate to.

Motherhood is not oppression.

I feel like someone needs to hear this today. Motherhood isn’t always easy. Matter of fact, it may be one of the hardest things we ever do, but it’s not oppression. I had children in the best of circumstances and in the worst. And I remember the loneliness and frustration of parenting alone during my single mom years. It’s real. But it’s so important we don’t count the sacrifice and difficulty as something that’s holding us back from a better future.

God, in His infinite wisdom, seen fit to make you a mother. And as a mother of 6, I often feel spread so thin, I silently pray for grace to get through the moment. But in His sovereignty, considering all the other incredible plans He has for you, saw fit for motherhood to be your best training ground or environment to learn and grow into all the other beautiful things He has for your life.

If you’re raising a child alone, I honor you. Right here and now, I bow my head and lift you up because I know this isn’t how you expected or hoped it would be. But I also want to remind you, you’re not alone. God is with you, and far closer than He seems most days. Those children of yours are a gift. So as you’re tucking them in tonight after dinner, baths and homework, look at them and remember, you can’t reach your destiny without them. You are blessed and endowed with everything you need for the journey. And even the hardest days are all part of the process.

Author: Stephanie Jackson

Hello friends and family of 316!
In 2019 Stephanie and I spent the whole year leaning into life and service at 316, “equipping the saints for the work of service to the building up of the body of Christ.” This year, 2020, has been very different because of COVID. But the work hasn’t decreased, only increased. However, it looks quite different now and we’re making the necessary adjustments.

One thing this year has taught us, among other things, is that there is a lot we can do through online platforms. Way more even, than we once realized. From face-to-face zoom calls, conferences, online classes, individual sessions for equipping and healing and prayer, and so on. And although nothing beats being with each other physically, the need for discipleship and training is needed now more than ever. Truthfully, the individual needs of the people are at an all time high. Everyone in this country has been hit with a level of grief from the tension and uncertainty and it’s brought forth waves of emotion that can be heard and felt. The need to show-up in an effective way is greater than we’ve ever imagined.

Looking to 2021, our team recognizes the value and need to upgrade all of our production/technology equipment. What we currently have has served us well up to this point, as most of our teaching and training has been in-person. But times have changed.

The 316 Church technology upgrade would allow us to do what we do whether we can be there in-person or not. It will allow us to offer discipleship and training resources in video format and/or online class format. In January of 2021 we’re launching The 316 Church App that will be available for download on any Apple or Android device, and on it, we are building and offering all classes planned for 2021 which are, but not limited to:
-Together Forever, A Marriage Workshop
-Starting Point, A New Members Class
-All Next Step Courses which include:

• Health topics
• Bible Book studies
• Finance topics
• Relationship topics (Divorce, Communication, Fighting Fair, etc) 
• Deep Dive into the Prophetic

-Plus, any teaching and training we are continually developing.

Our church app will allow you to stay more connected than ever. Stephanie and I are hoping it can bring a sense of community back to those who’ve been out for an extended period of time. There will be a ‘Pastor’s Corner’ where you will get regular messages from us. With a single click, you will be able to watch every sermon recorded in our database. There will be a prayer request section where you can list anything on your heart and it will come directly to Steph and I, and we’ll spend time every Tuesday and Thursday praying over those needs. You will get all of our live streaming directly from the app, meaning, you don’t have to have any social media accounts to be able to tune in. There will be an events page to keep you notified of what’s happening next and so much more!
 
We love and miss you all, and in spite of the distance between us, we’ve been praying for and working hard on a solution that will help us serve ALL of The 316 community, not just those who can show up when the doors are open. Especially, as we’ve grown outside of the city of Wichita with community members in Dodge City, Texas, Arizona, Louisiana and several other places. And we believe this is the solution. The grief of not being able to be with you all or sufficiently meet many needs has caused overwhelming pain at times and we really believe our app and tech upgrade will help bridge that gap.

What we need:

1. New computer for sound booth $2000
2. Sound board $1500
3. ATEM Mini (used for video production and streaming) $500
4. 2 Cinema cameras (for production and recording) $2200
5. Pro Presenter 7 (worship media software) $875
6. Editing/Graphic Design Laptop $1000
7. Final Cut Pro (editing software) $900
8. Water Baptism Pool $1000

For a total budget of: $9975.00

We’re simply inviting you to prayerfully consider giving towards this opportunity. I’ve calculated that if 50 people would each donate just $199.50, our budget would be met entirely. But of course, however you feel led to give would be an extreme blessing.
 
Thank you so much for your support and prayers. May the Lord continue to keep you in peace and hope in abundance by the power of the Holy Spirit.

For donation information, please text “the316churchgive” to 77977 OR click here: https://pushpay.com/g/thethreesixteenchurch

Please be sure to select “technology” in the Fund drop-down box instead of “tithes & offerings” so we can be sure your donation goes to the right place.

God is love,
Pastor Cam

With so many hot topics and swirling messages, we thought it was important to share our thoughts on the political climate. Our goal, at the end of the day, is to pastor your hearts well. This election cycle isn’t entirely different than all the others. But in our new age of social media, the level of tension is without a doubt, higher. It’s such a noisy world these days. We no longer only have the news to rely on for all the latest info, we now have multiple apps waiting to be opened where we can listen to our co-workers, former teachers, closest relatives, and barely made acquaintances spewing out every thought that comes to mind and statistics they just read. And while this is now part of culture as we know it, we’d like to share with the 316 and beyond, the body of Christ who represent His heart and His kingdom in this world.

We’ve heard Christians who can’t support Trump say they feel outcast and more alone than ever. We’ve talked to Democrat brothers and sisters, mature in their faith, who vote with deep and sincere conviction. A couple of our Liberal friends taught us one of the greatest lessons in love a few years ago. Their heart and compassion for others was simply stunning to behold. We’ve listened as our Republican friends who endorse Trump say they feel so incredibly judged they’re afraid to share openly at all. We’ve talked to Republicans who are pro-choice and Democrats who are pro-life. There are some who lean left not crazy about wearing masks, and others leaning right who deeply value the Covid mandates. We’ve talked to a few who feel so discouraged by current propaganda, they’re choosing not to vote at all, which has also been a hard choice for them. You might be able to guess by now, this could go on and on forever. If we’re being deeply honest, humans are way too complex to fit entirely into one box. I’m not making light of any of the weighty issues. We wrestle over them as much as the next person.

But we have come to accept that no matter which way you lean, or how passionate you are, in most cases, we don’t fit fully inside one candidates agenda.

Cam and I are not recommending you disengage either. We have our own well considered votes that we plan to contribute. But one thing we’ve grown in over the last several years, is intentionality in seeking to understand those we don’t agree with. It’s changed us deeply. Not necessarily our core values, but our capacity to understand that there are paradigms built by life experiences and contexts we might never comprehend. A lens, if you will, we simply don’t have. It exposes our blind spots and we’re extremely grateful for that. We have many. These paradigms shape every thought and core belief we hold dear, and they’re as sacred to us as our race and place of origin. So yes, by all means, vote if that feels important to you. Make the best decision you can with the most information you can find. But let’s also realize we’re often grossly over-confident in our flimsy opinions and ever-developing world views. And as brothers and sisters in Christ, we must regard each other more important than our points. “We wrestle not against flesh and blood.”

We’re being bamboozled, and we’re taking the bait. We’ve been as guilty as the next. On Netflix’s new documentary, The Social Dilemma, an ex-Facebook executive tells us, “There’s always a reason something is free. If you’re not paying for the product, YOU ARE THE PRODUCT.” Over the last 10 years or so, there’s been a steady progression of our minds and culture being utterly altered by this media era. It’s caused us to divide and make an enemy out of anyone with a different point of view. We’ve become so good at choosing a side, then we carefully construct our walls to keep the insiders, in, and the outsiders, out. We don’t break bread and share our thoughts and ideas over the table of friendship, we just launch them like grenades into the abyss of online users and hope to take out as many as we can with one shot. Of course, some will cast their stones anyway… but if you must, remember those same stones have a way of finding their way back to your house and home.

For that reason alone, (and we could think of a lot more reasons) we ought to be kinder. More open. More gentle. More loving. More forgiving. More embracing. Less offended by opposing opinions, and especially the people who hold them. We’re not asking you to forsake your convictions or values, we’re asking you not to hate, or judge, or categorize your fellow brother and sister for landing in a different place. Who are we to assume they arrived there frivolously? Can we pay close attention to the language we use and the way we communicate? We do that in our own homes to honor the people we love. We practice it everyday. The sad part is not that we have wildly different ideas about things, but the mirror it provides to what’s going on in our hearts and what’s happening to our society.

Jesus showed us another way. Our friend Chris wrote, “Spend time at his feet, gaze at him through the gospel stories and remember who he was in the flesh. Remember his kindness. Remember the things he fought against, and the WAY that he fought them. Remember his humility. Remember his clarity. Remember his sacrifice. Remember his ways. His ways are not our ways. His works will RARELY (if ever) be accomplished the way we think they will be or should be.” Wow. These are such important truths to ponder.

The early church couldn’t have possibly agreed on all fronts. Can you imagine the passionate disagreements the 12 disciples must have had? To circumcise, or not to circumcise? If only we could have been a fly on the wall. If Pontius Pilate was up for election, their votes would have surely been divided. There had to have been differing opinions over the next Ceasar to rule. But we see much more clearly in scripture they had their hope set on a much greater kingdom with a much greater King. Our charge wasn’t to agree, but to live unified in love. This is how we show the world we are His disciples. This is how we accomplish unity and diversity. We love when it hurts. We love when we don’t agree. We love when we’re misunderstood. We love when it feels like we can’t anymore. We love. Indefinitely and always.

The great, late, Ravi Zacharias said, “Unity doesn’t always mean uniformity.” We have work to do. Holy Spirit makes what seems undoable, doable. Thank God we have His help.

Let’s look higher, together. Amen? ….. Amen.
1 Corinthians 12:12-31

Author: Stephanie Jackson

One of the teams were out on one of the coldest nights during the winter storm.
They were actually driving to check in about 7 more guests into hotel rooms. Gwen and Sug took a wrong turn through a parking lot and noticed a small tent pitched on the side of a building. Sug was compelled to check it out just to make sure no one was inside. But there was. Jimmy was inside, he’s the one standing next to me in the picture. His fingers were blue and he was shivering uncontrollably. He had everything he owned stacked around him trying to stay warm, but failing.

 Sug began asking him questions to see if he wanted shelter, Jimmy answered but was in somewhat of a stupor thinking he was dreaming. He willingly got in the car and into a room, and soon got warm enough and regained coherence. Sug packed all of his stuff and even rode his bike across the street in the snow so he didn’t lose any of his belongings. He was so, so grateful. And I can’t help but think what could have happened to him that night.

Jimmy is just one story. There are so many. And all of them changed me, deeply. Several of them got to come to church on Sunday and Jimmy told me after service, “He was on cloud nine being there with us.” Anthony, the other one in the picture, went up for prayer during service and just gripped onto Cam so tight. He didn’t have words, just a tangible grief. Cam held him, praying a little, but mostly just sitting with him in the pain. It was utterly beautiful and a total honor to behold.

I’ve been wanting to write every day since this ended. But I couldn’t. My family needed me to slow down and just be with them. And I’ve needed time to sit quietly before the Lord to process the whole experience. Still, it seems almost too soon and too sacred to put a pen to. And I don’t believe words will do it justice. I’ve also been wanting to share with each and every one of you, as a gift and offering to the city of Wichita for all the ways you wrapped your arms around our brothers and sisters on the street. I wanted to give you at least a glimpse of the magnitude your contributions accomplished. This whole experience was holy ground. Truly. The kind of thing I need to take my sandals off just to talk about.

Getting to know them, over the course of 10 days, gave me a unique kind of joy. Going door to door, serving meals and connecting with each soul is something you can’t describe. You can’t even tell it. They checked out Monday and the whole day weighed heavy on my heart. I felt such concern for their well-being, like I would for my own children. It just hurt. I know getting them out of the sub-zero temperatures was important. It mattered. And it was worth it. But I can’t help but think what God’s wildest dreams are for them. He loves them, and not one of them goes overlooked or unnoticed. They’re his sons and daughters. And He sees. He knows. And He cares. I find myself wide open to go on new journeys to the deep places of His heart for his children without shelter.

I’m pretty sure I already knew this, but it’s clearer now. Only a couple of things will really matter when it’s all said and done.

-Did you learn how to love?
-And how well did you serve the least of them?

Fancy buildings, ministry titles, and even casting out demons won’t mean anything when we stand before the throne. The size of our congregations, our prophetic words, and even our greatest accolades won’t be on our minds when we see Jesus face to face.

I believe it will only be,
-Did I learn how to love?
-And how well did I serve the least of them?

May we never forget what we carry in our heritage and spiritual DNA. To love, protect and defend the widow, the orphan, the foreigner, the marginalized, and the ones who everyone else has thrown away. It’s who we are and the thing we must not forsake. We can’t build doctrines around scripture if we have to throw away the life Jesus lived to do it. He fulfilled the law, so we have to pay close attention to how he did that. And from what the gospels tell us, he did it with scandalous grace and an unwavering love that covered all of our depravity and broke all the rules.

The beauty of needing a Savior is that it’s the great leveler. Not one of us is more important, more special, or better than anyone else. But we are all significant. Fearfully and wonderfully made. Endowed with gifts from heaven and imprinted with the image of our Creator. The love of Jesus bestows value on every human life. He doesn’t need us, but His plan always included us. And the hope of Jesus reaching the world is you and me.

I dare you to trust again that eternity is within our reach. The kingdom is now, on earth as it is in heaven. All He needs is our ‘yes,’ even when it’s too big to understand. He does the heavy lifting and brings all the pieces together. It’s amazing what can happen when we mobilize and take the risk of jumping in. Riding this unplanned wave of the Spirit was hard work, but awaiting us on the other side was an explosion of grace that impacted a whole city.

It reminds me of an African Proverb:
“If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.”

Amen. Thank you Wichita.

Author: Stephanie Jackson

Have you ever had one of those moments where you think, “I should really get back to ______.” You can fill in the blank for whatever that is for you. Maybe it’s painting, crafting, changing out of your sweats everyday? Judge me. Well, among other things, for me, it’s writing. I had no idea it had been a year until my grandmother re-posted my last blog, but I had thought about it many, many times.

Wow. For anyone who cares, please forgive me. I spent the last year growing a new family member, which is a really good excuse if you ask me.

I’m so happy to pause again and reflect on the goodness of God over the last year. It’s unreal to think that next month will be our 2 year Anniversary since we started Sunday services, and 3 years since we began meeting as the 316 community. This has been such a wild and fulfilling ride. If I had to choose one thing I’ve learned more over all others, it would be how in love Christ is with His Bride. I have a new love for her myself and hold her in a sacred place in my heart. I will forever be grateful to 316 for giving me that revelation deeper than I’ve ever known.

Since the last few months of pregnancy, I’ve taken a step back. Which has been both hard and good. Really leaning into our home life and being present with the kids has been my goal. And even though taking my hands off of things at church is challenging, it’s been a great time of dreaming and seeing what God has in store for the future. I feel like an architect in this season. I can see spiritually all the plans being laid out and how things will work together when it’s time to break new ground. I’m stirred deeply to journey with 316 in the prophetic, while Cam’s apostolic nature always seems 10 steps ahead of everything. And together, we desire to dive deep into the work of racial reconciliation. It’s a true joy to be alive and in Christ alongside him.

In Cam and I’s first year of marriage, we lived in Salina, KS. We did campus ministry and he was pastoring in a couple of different roles already. But he had carried the 316 deep in his heart before it ever had a name or took form. As we enter year 3 as a church I find myself thinking about those nights in Salina. I would wake in the middle of the night and find my husband praying on the side of the bed, sometimes writing things down in his notebook, and stirring so much with plans and anticipation. I was so ambivalent in the beginning. But there was something growing inside him and I knew it was God’s will to bring it forth. I’d never seen anyone go through something like that before. I never watched up close and personal someone carry a vision so sacredly.

If there was a way to talk to him out of it, I certainly tried early on. I can now say with all my heart, I’m so glad I couldn’t. I would ask him constantly what he was doing up all night and to my amazement he would have entire team building strategies written down, along with very intentional ways to accomplish unity and diversity. One morning I woke up and he had an entire method of discipleship on paper. There was really no end to his prayerful consideration for this thing inside him. He held this seed tightly in his heart, and sat with Jesus for hours upon hours asking Him to grow it.

We both shared a passion for unity and diversity. ON EARTH AS IT IS IN HEAVEN. We knew a truly unified church that crossed cultural and racial walls was our greatest hearts desire. As impossible as it seemed, we walked every step of it out knowing God was going to do it. One of the things we knew had to happen, was to be diverse from the top down. We had to be that which we seek. To say we want diversity but not reflect it in leadership is something we believe hinders many communities with a sincere desire for it. We also started intentionally driving this vision into every meeting we had together. To this day, when we have our Tuesday meal followed by a simple bible study, we start out by saying that all points of view are welcome, that it’s okay to disagree, and that no matter what we discuss at the table, we leave as friends. Because although we may see things differently, we can all agree that we have been reconciled to God through Jesus Christ, and this means we are family.

Unity doesn’t always mean uniformity. Unity is our choice and mission. It’s motivated by Love and fueled by the Spirit. It is God’s will for his church. IT. IS. POSSIBLE. And it matters so much. Especially in a racially divided nation.

Through our years in church, Cam and I both have been members of all black churches and all white churches. Growing up I went to a Mexican church where the entire service was done in Spanish, not even speaking Spanish myself. You don’t have to be very observant to see that there is a great divide. So if we take an honest look at ourselves and the church, just in our lifetime alone, I think we can acknowledge that as a whole, we haven’t done the work of racial reconciliation. We haven’t done unity and diversity well. Talking church and race can be an intimidating topic. It’s a sensitive issue, and a real issue. But whether we like it or not, the church must lead the way in this if we want to see real change in our communities and world.

Cam and I were recently invited to Sterling University to speak to the students and spend a few days with them. Sterling is a very small town with only a single stop light. It’s safe to say it’s not a very diverse place, and even more so if you’re not on campus. On our last day there, the president of the college and his team asked for a Q and A session with us over lunch. One of his questions was, “How can we accomplish unity and diversity organically?” Isn’t this such a rich and honest question? And even more encouraging to know presidents of Universities are asking it. But we believe that as much as we all want it to happen organically, we have to be really intentional. We just have to. We must do the ground work. We have to lay the right foundation for it. We have to set the stage, if you will. If we want people from every culture, nation, and race to come together and be willing to do life together, we have to be intentional about tilling the right soil for that garden. Because we naturally cluster with those we most understand, with who we’re most alike. That’s okay, it is what it is. But stereotypes will only end, where relationships begin. And the opportunities for relationship are literally all around us.

The church is supposed to be a place of healing. The church is meant to have a distinct voice in the world around it. But so often, we are the opposite. At times, we’ve actually brought a lot more pain into this conversation. I think one of the biggest places we go wrong is when we look for the answer in government or politics, and not in the message of Jesus. Politics and the gospel are two totally different starting points in finding unity and diversity. Politics are designed to divide us because it forces us to choose a side. What continues to happen is much of our worldview, and even sadder, our theology is getting wrapped up in our lens of political affiliation, instead of our affiliation with Christ. Jesus HAS to be the center. He has to be the beginning, the middle and the end of this mission, or we will always go wrong in loving one another.

Peter walked and talked and spent time with Jesus on a regular basis, all throughout the book of Acts when some of the most amazing outpourings of God’s Spirit were taking place. And he still missed the message that the gospel was for everyone. Which means we aren’t going to get heaven-on-earth communities by accident. We have to be intentional and do the work. We can’t lead people anywhere we’re not willing to go personally. The church we see in the book of Acts what a multi-cultural, multi-generational, multi-people group church. And we want our congregations and communities to look more like the throne room with each passing day.

It’s so exciting to be part of the biggest blended family on earth. And an honor to partner with the Holy Spirit to represent it well. I can’t even imagine all God has in store for us in the future but we’re here for it. We are so thankful for The 316 community for committing themselves to each other and doing the hard work. It’s an honor to be on this journey with you.
This is the best life.

“Let me give you a new command: Love one another. In the same way I loved you, you love one another. This is how everyone will recognize that you are my disciples—when they see the love you have for each other.”
-John 13:34-35 (MSG)

Author: Stephanie Jackson

I was around 13 years old. I was going to be in my first Quinceanera. My mother couldn’t afford an expensive dress, so my grandmother sent us to a woman she knew. As we pulled up to this home, I remember my wheels started turning. I had never been to such a small house before. As we walked in we met a kind and pleasant woman and her four children. This woman was Luz. She couldn’t speak english and we couldn’t speak spanish, so her daughter helped us communicate. Luz was a talented seamstress. Her hands were gifted. As we went inside I was observing a lot. I was too young to totally understand what I was feeling, but old enough to know my compassion was triggered. Luz lived in a 1 room house with her 4 babies. No, I didn’t say 1 bedroom. I said 1 room. Her one room had 3 beds, a portable closet, a couple dressers, and one corner of the room was her work station. She had an organized sewing area. Off to the side was a very small room with a toilet and a shower, along with a very small kitchen. What I didn’t know at that time, was that Luz was an illegal immigrant. She sewed her fingers off to provide for her children and was always happy, willing, and prompt to do any work given to her. After many years of hard work and struggle, Luz landed a big break. Day after day she’d be up and ready at 7 am with all 4 kids in tow. She would go door to door, business to business. She would walk in and say, “I can work, I can sew! Will you let me sew for you?” Many years she was sent away by irritated people who simply had no time to be bothered with her. Until one day a well known local business owners wife had mercy on her. She hired her for a small job and was so impressed, she hired her to do their biggest jobs. I can’t think of anyone more qualified or deserving.

This was the beginning of my grandmother’s work at United Methodist Urban Ministries and Catholic Charities. She worked as an advocate to help illegal immigrants receive their citizenship until she retired. During her time as an advocate she helped countless people and families in a variety of situations. She went to court with them, to the doctor, helped fill out paperwork and so on.

My grandmother has always been hardworking. She will be 80 this December. To this day, she hasn’t sat down. Everyone who knows her, knows she’s a doer. She gets things done. But it wasn’t until I sat down with her recently that I understood just how much she did. I spent hours listening to stories from her years as an advocate. I asked her how she was able to do it. Just hearing about the intense hardship and bitter struggle so many of them suffered was more than I could handle. She said, “God helped me.” She shed tears as she had to think about that question. She remembered so many times she had to be stern and not let them fall into hopelessness. She would pray with them, lift up their chin and firmly say, “You have to keep going. You don’t have to be afraid. God is with you. Now get up, your family needs you.” So often, that was all they needed, and enough to keep them going.

At one point in her career she was given the top floor of an office to use in any way she thought best. So she started classes. All kinds of them. Any class that was required to gain citizenship she began teaching in this building. She taught English as a Second Language, Parenting Class, Finance, and more. At one point so many classes were running, her higher-ups came to her concerned, telling her she needed to stop doing so much. She shared with me the story of a young mother, Maria. Maria had been here for a few years and was raising children. In the ESL class, my grandmother taught all of the people to say, “Please speak slowly.” That way, when they had doctor appointments or any kind of interaction they had a better chance at understanding and communicating. Maria came to class one day, so overcome with emotion and eager to tell her story. She went to the doctor that day and did exactly what grandma taught them. She looked the receptionist in the eye and said, “Please speak slowly.” The receptionist was kind and said, “Of course.” It was the first time in years she was able to communicate and could understand the whole conversation. That one simple tool was the biggest game changer of her life. Maria told my grandma through tears, “When I left, I wanted to beat my chest. I felt like I could do anything!” It was such a simple but huge victory for her. She left beaming and full of hope.

I don’t know what you think about when you hear the word immigrant. I don’t know what you visualize in your minds eye. But when I think of them, I see the faces of Luz and Maria, these friends turned family. I don’t see criminals. I see people who desperately need a hand, people who need hope and love, and people who have so much to offer our communities and world. I asked my grandmother if she had to place a percentage on the number of illegal immigrants who were granted legal status during the time she worked with them, what would it be? She said between 40-50%. She said they always showed up early, came to every appointment, and worked hard daily at becoming legal. Finally I asked how many were genuine, hardworking people willing to do anything for a better life? What would that percentage be? She said over 90%. Wow. I asked, “Well, what about the bad people? The criminals? How many are just looking for a hand out?” She said only 5%. She said 90% were hardworking, 5% couldn’t work because of medical conditions or disabilities, and only 5% she had trouble with. My hope in writing this is to give you a new lens to look through you may not otherwise have.

Every night before my husband comes to bed, he walks through the house and checks on all the kids. He makes sure every door is locked and things are where they should be. He goes through a process, if you will, to ensure our safety. Just like my husbands desire to protect us, every administration carries that responsibility for the American people. I can understand that. I can respect that. I honor that. But what I can’t do is come into agreement with the separation of families as a just punishment for crossing the border. Especially for the hurting and vulnerable. These precious people are oppressed and have no answers. They don’t need more pain or condemnation. They need an out stretched hand.

I’ve never been hungry or in the streets. I’ve never not been able to feed my children. I’ve never had to make a decision between life or death. But when I engage my imagination and put myself in those scenarios, the mother’s heart inside me would stop at nothing to put food in my child’s mouth or to provide for them. I’ve prayed and cried. Cried and prayed. I’m crying out for wisdom. I know we need order. But this isn’t the way.

Pro-Lifers, this is our time to shine. We fight for the unborn but won’t for brown babies in cages because we can’t detour from our political bandwagons. Politics are one thing. Humanity is another. This is a humanitarian crisis happening before our eyes. You don’t have to hate Trump, be a Democrat, Liberal, or a Leftist to hate this. I am none of that. Only human. In the gospels, Jesus walked around day after day offending the mind to reach the heart. It happened to every religious leader of his day. If you can look at the images of these children and hear the cry of the afflicted and have a pre-planned black and white answer in your back pocket, I beg you to pause and re-examine. There is irreversible damage being done as we speak. It’s not okay. The fact that children are separated from their parents in the US is NOT a valid argument. These are loving parents, fighting to give their children better. We can’t lump them in the same category as drug users, manipulators, and real criminals. It’s in our spiritual DNA to respond to these cries with attention, love and mercy. I don’t recognize who we are right now. It hurts.
Heidi Baker said, “It is a privilege beyond price to see the joy and affection of the Holy Spirit poured out like a waterfall on people who have known so much severe hardship, disappointment and bitter loneliness in their lives. Throughout the world we see ravenous desire for God among the poor and lowly. Jesus knows their suffering, and He will make it up to them. He will be their God, and they will be His people. He will use them to shame the wise and make the world jealous of their wealth toward Him.”

They are the poor and lowly. They are the least of these. They are the widows and orphans in trouble. They are the people we profess to love and pray salvation for. I ask you, how will we ever love our enemies if we can’t even love our neighbors?

Jen Hatmaker said, “While immigration remains complicated, this new “zero tolerance” policy is cruel, inhumane, and wicked.”

What do I think? I think it’s easy to see the speck in someone else’s eye, and hard to see the log in our own. We can do better. And it matters so much.

I will leave you with one last story. When my grandma was with Catholic Charities, there was an office wing where all the nuns worked. It was no secret that the sisters had money that could be used for various programs. But it was up to them how it would be used. Grandma always wanted to ask but didn’t know them personally and was unsure of how to do it. As she went deeper in the trenches and seen the growing need, she knew she needed to ask for a portion. So one day, she courageously walked into their office prepared to request and defend what she was asking for. The nun at the front desk routinely asked, “What’s your name?” When she responded, “Rosa Cruz,” the sisters enthusiastically and passionately said, “Rosa! YOU’RE Rosa Cruz?!! Thank you, thank you Rosa for what your doing for the people! We hear so much about you! Thank you for your love. Thank you for what your doing!” My grandma was embarrassed and shocked. Her name had gone before her and the way the immigrants loved her was known. The sisters granted her $700 a week. It might not sound like much, but this was a huge blessing. Everything counted. She was so humbled that day. She can’t even speak of that experience without crying. Now is the time to be the Rosa Cruz in someone’s life. I hope we will all take that plunge.

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I want to dedicate this article to my grandmother, Rosa Cruz, a faithful servant. Thank you for being the hands and feet of Jesus and teaching us well. I love you.

Author: Stephanie Jackson